Hobo I have a Myspace page and a Facebook Page I have not touched the Myspace page in 4 years. Guess what happened today an old friend that I lost touch with but who had a Myspace page contacted me via Myspace and I got the message from my Email. So if she updated her Profile Pic she does check on Facebook but must not be active there. SO GET OFF YOUR BUTT AND SEND THAT MESSAGE. CALLED DO SOMETHING FOR ONCE AND STOP FRIGGING ANALIZING THINGS TO DEATH BOY IF YOU HAD BEEN IN CHARGE OF SIGNAL INTEL IN WW2 WE NEVER WOULD HAVE GUESSED THE JAPS WERE COMING FOR MIDWAY. TAKE A RISK FOR ONCE IN YOUR LIFE SHE IS YOUR DAUGHTER IS SHE NOT WORTH IT.

 

Move!

 

What kind of proof do you want?

Have you thought that maybe she setup the facebook as a way for you to contact her?

 

 

Yes... I DID. But, I discounted it. I am resisting the thought that she MIGHT know that "I" am also now on facebook, and updated her photo as a way of "signalling" me. But... I keep all options open in my thought process.

 

The first part of your post is pretty evident. But... it is your last phrase that hits me hard and true.

I guess I really DON'T have anything to lose if I don't make the attempt. I have NOTHING now. My life would be NO more "pointless" if my attempt at contact should FAIL.

I don't HAVE her in my life now. Only in my tortured memories.

I COULD make her life... and mine... so much better. But, I could still make HER life worse. That has always been my excuse. But, I guess THAT should be HER choice... not mine.

If I am willing... as I've said... to take abuse or rejection... then I should put the same responsibility on HER.

I am starting to think that SHE needs an answer as much as "I" do.

SOME here are starting to pressure me. I guess I opened that door. I didn't ASK what y'all thought I should do... I asked what YOU would do. I know it's a fine line.

I do not have words to express how much the support, ideas, personal testimonies and advice have meant to me. I know... that's a first, right?

No... of course, it's a lie. I ALWAYS have words. But, I won't bore y'all with them. I'll just say THANK YOU.

 

I don't know if I can answer what I would do. I mean it would be easy to say, and I think it would be, what you already feel in your gut. Maybe your not looking so much for encouragement, but I/we're here for you....me? ..up to aboot 5 paragraphs....then my brain is mush.

 

Lucky for me... AND my daughter... that neither of us are as racist as you proclaim to be.

BTW... I have NEVER said that I don't like you.

But THIS post... on this (of all) thread(s) is all ANY of us need to know about you.

Now.... get OFF my thread! Take your "paranoid conservatism" to the politics column where we can easily ignore you.

But, I hope they don't BAN you. Your posts are the best evidence "we" have that YOUR side is populated with blithering idiots.

 

Thanks, Hoggie. I apologize for making it so lengthy. I REALLY appreciate your contribution. I knew from the beginning there weren't enough boobs involved to keep your attention! LOL! No.... really. Thanks.

 

Wow... you WENT there? "Sperm Donor?" How about the "Immaculate Catholic Deception?" 98% of Catholic women use birth control, but MY "soon to be ex-wife" believed that God (and his angels) sat on thrones in Heaven and decided WHO got pregnant and when... and why.

A "racist conservative?" LOL! She's half Latina! She has known gov't "help" all her life (maybe.) Her "new" Daddy served in the military for 20 years (I think.) Oh... BTW... even tho he is Hispanic... I'm pretty sure HE is a "natural born" citizen! [As are everyone in her LIVING family! Only her Grandfather, Juan, was born outside of the States.

Her cousin, Johnny II... apparently DIED in service to his country in the Gulf War in 91 under the elder Bush. You got a "crack" to make about THAT?

You have NO idea. And the sad fact is... you have no idea that you HAVE "no idea."

Please.... get your filthy attitude off my thread. I was expecting some grief when I started it... from those I considered GOOD friends. I didn't GET any such grief from THEM. It took YOU to introduce HATE and judgement (as well as racism) into it.