:shock: :shock: You got that right.....Thats it....Im opening a Spa and Massage (for women only). Im in the money..... :lol: :lol:

HAHA - I said "HOT", not horny :P

Female? see signature if any doubt

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Forget it - when I came home from the war I spent my savings on massage school, so now I'm certified for horses and people. And I was in rich horse country, just to make sure.

And so I drive trucks again.

Now, if one of these ladies wants a spa day, I can cook, clean, and give an excellent massage, so just hire me for the day.

I don't know... Just to keep the WAR going...

So many women want to find an honest man, but please tell me...

Any of you guys find an honest woman?

My own experience is that: If women were required to subscribe to TRUTH IN ADVERTISING, like businesses must, NONE OF THEM WOULD EVER GET MARRIED because no man would except the terms.

My ex had one side of her for eight years while she wanted to have more kids. But after all the kids were here, I got to see the other side of her. If I'd known about that one, I'd never have gotten married in the first place.

And while stories from other guys aren't quite the same, the parallel isn't far off. How many of you guys that have been married before have heard things like "YOU HAD FUN MAKING THEM, NOW YOU PAY FOR THEM"?

When I got married, I didn't marry kids. I married her. The kids weren't there, and it really didn't matter to me if we had any kids or not. She was the one that wanted kids when we got married. That's right. I was simply looking at getting married to HER. She was the one that talked about "GET MARRIED AND RAISE A FAMILY".

How many women out there feel that "If you want nice looking teeth, you have to suffer through a dentist... If you want kids, you have to suffer through a man"?

And, do you tell your prospective fool about that beforehand?

Windwalker .... as the old saying goes ... "it's not fair to bunch all the apples in one basket" .... cause 1 bad apple can spoil the bunch ! .... as for what YOUR wife did to you, there has to be more to the story than what you've told us. ..... there always is.
If I looked at all men the way a couple of them treated me .... I'd consider ALL of YOU ARE CHEATERS ... but that wouldn't be fair to the few that don't. ........

.... sorry dude you'll need to start another thread for this one. This title has already been named :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Now that's totally UNFAIR to say. Hopefully someday you'll be able to get past your anger.


Well it sounds like to me that you ALREADY KNEW SHE WANTED KIDS .... did someone MAKE YOU get married :?: maybe your were thinking with the wrong head :roll: .....

Don't get all upset with me for voiceing my opinion now Windwalker :wink: ... you knew when you posted this - someone or several others would jump on it. Most female truckers have strong personalities and would take offense. .... At least the few of US that aren't after a male to support us - no matter how many children you may help produce. :!: ..... My daugher is raising her 3 son's WITHOUT child support and doing a fine job at it by herself. .....

The point is that "women are looking for an HONEST man". But, what of the women, themselves? I've been told one thing before I got married, and quite another after.

Then, I wake up at 1:30 AM, and hear voices in the living room. Wondering who is there, I pull my pants up and go see... She and another woman are naked in the living room with another guy, and I'm the CHOPPED LIVER sleeping in the bedroom......

Okay, she says they were drunk and it was a "ONE-TIME" deal. I can forgive a mistake or a one-time indescretion. Now, I find out that it's been an on-going thing. I work and get home tired, she knows I'll sleep through the night, and she even has a couple of guys watching outside so that no one will disturb her. Someone comes to the door, they get stopped before they have a chance to knock.

The other women that were there in the past was her idea, not mine. She's not missing out on any action, but I get to date "ROSY PALM".

Now, tell me I'm not supposed to be angry.....

Women want an honest man? How about the women themselves? How honest are they?

Before I got married, I was saying that "WOMEN DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT A SEX-DRIVE IS". And, I had no intention of ever getting married again, because of that. I got told that I'm wrong. Women most certainly DO have one, and it's just as strong as a man's. Then, after we got married, I got told: "I CAN LIVE WITH IT OR I CAN LIVE WITHOUT IT". Now, please tell me just where is the HONESTY in that?

Women want honesty in a man, I would suggest that they take a very good look at their own back porches first.

Now, PLEASE DO jump in there and tell me I'm wrong because it's a VERY SAD WORLD if I'm right.

I am so sorry for your past .... truely I am. Clearly she wasn't being honest with you when she married you - .... she got married for the wrong reasons and sad as it is ... there will always be humans out there like that.

They should have to live on one side of the world while the rest of us that want the REAL THING/DEAL can enjoy each others company and be able to relax knowing our spouse isn't going to cheat on us. ....................... I know for a fact there's several females on this earth that are honest and loyal.

My fiance' pasted away 7 yrs ago ( he was a trucker ) and you should of seen the look on my face and felt the sickness I had in the pit of my stomach when the females started showing up and calling when they found out he passed..... he had kept contact with them the whole time we were together. Here I thought he was being loyal to me and our relationship ...... I guess the other females thought the same too :cry:

I know people that have been hurt like you and me and many others will be able to get past this pain and distrust - it's a choice ...... I know I want to learn to trust again and you know how hard that is to do...... I refuse to continue to be stuck in the Pain Mode and Distrust. We have to take baby steps and walk softly with the next person in our lives. I for one will take alot more time to get to know the next man in my life before I freely hand over my heart, money, home and etc..

I am so very truly sorry for you Windwalker. One experience I certainly can relate to. I've also have been married to an unfaithful partner. He likely has regretted his antics over the many years......too bad he had no respect for himself, for me or our marriage.

Yet, I have no aversion to marriage.

I share my life with a kind, considerate & caring man now who is a driver. We are 2200 miles apart at the best of times, we have a great relationship. I can only wish the same for you one day.

No. My answer is very simple.

I can take a woman to dinner, to a movie, or to a bar for a couple of drinks. Not a problem. But, if she wants to get into more of a relationship than that, SHE CAN KISS MY GRITS BECAUSE THAT'S THE CLOSEST RELATIONSHIP ANY WOMAN IS EVER GOING TO GET FROM ME EVER AGAIN. If I'm going to be dating "ROSY PALM", then I'm also going to be supporting "ROSY PALM". And women can make their own way. They want to walk on the beach in the moonlight and hold hands, they have two hands.