I'm not positive your man is cheating - some men can chat and have friends but in my opinion, if your relationship is strong enough and he has enough invested in you he wouldn't "need" to be keeping in touch with any woman. You should confront him - you need to ask him straight out what is going on and take it from there.
Maybe he'll say it's just chat and it is but even if that's the case he needs to know that you are on the watch and if for one second you think he's meeting these girls you are out the door. BUT YOU NEED TO MEAN IT.
If he admits to meeting strippers or lizards, get rid of him and move on for your own sake and for the kids. Doesn't matter how much you love him, you already don't trust him and his admission won't change that it will only make it worse.

 

and he says that he had no idea that I would be that offeneded (DUH) ! I do feel that I can trust him, I just get really worried especially when he is on the raod for long periods of time. I told him if I find out anything is going on besides what he says or what I see, that I am DONE. No ifs, ands, or buts !!! I think I made myself pretty clear. I think he knew that it would offend me and he was just trying to ese what he could get away with.

He swares I am trying to control him when the truth is I just love him and want our family to work. I hope that he is being truthful and that this can all blow over. Thanks to all for your response. Sincerely

 

My wife and I have been married for over 30yr. Marriage is tough and calls for even bigger commitment and trust when one of you are away.
I have female friends that I talk to, that dosn't mean I'm cheating on my wife it just means that someone that I get along with just happens to be a woman.
I've been in and out of trucking for only a short time but I spent 7 years of my married life in the service so we know how hard it can be.
Don't let this be the end, with some stright forward talk and some thought about how your spouse feels you can and will get over this
O-yeah in that 30 years I've been to many strip clubs around the world and NEVER cheated! It actually made me miss my wife even more
I wish you the best

 

The best way to sort out the problem like that is the communication, you should talk to him clearly about his intentions, and what he wants from that stripper, i don't think that when you are not with him then he gets a chance to talk some other lady. Be strong and tell him about your problems, otherwise he will slip away from your hands.

 

Hey Jack..... This thread died over 4 YEARS AGO........ Look at the last post date on the top left of the last reply. :smokin: