Mommee said:
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Men say they like independent and strong women....we all aren't wimpy and need a man around constantly. I can and do hold down the fort.
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Men LIE!! And SO do women! Men don't REALLY want a strong woman, because they want to be the dominant one in the relationship. Most men are AFRAID of strong women, because they don't want the hassle of the power struggle!
They only SAY they want a 'strong woman' because, thanks to Women's Lib, women WANT to be appreciated for being STRONG! So, if we SAY we 'appreciate' that in a woman, and play to your self-interests, we MIGHT get "lucky!" :lol:
Likewise, women SAY they want a "sensitive" man! There are literally hundreds of magazines proclaiming this! It's a LIE!!! You're lying to US... and to yourselves! Women want a JERK!! GOD only knows WHY.... but it is TRUE (as a rule.)
Problem for US is..... there are LOTS of male "jerks" out there! It is part of their DNA to know how to "act" sensitive just long enough to HOOK their fish! But, a sensitive man, only LOOKS like a jerk, when he tries to ACT like a jerk to get your attention! You see right through him, and pass him by for the REAL jerk.... who is ACTING like he is sensitive because you have promised yourself that THAT is what you are looking for! Aaaargh!! :evil:
Like Truckrswyfe said..... ACT interested just long enough to make them THINK you are interested in their VIRTUOUS facade, because that makes you SEEM like the kind of man who would love the person they WISH they were! Then, pack up your tackle, and let the FISH come to YOU! Because THEY really want an "independant" man, who couldn't care LESS if he had a woman or not! They certainly don't WANT to have to be your MOTHER!
Dang! Now I've given myself a headache!! Trying to figure out women will DO that to a man! :roll: