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Originally Posted by nightbright1
What kinda cra*** is that guy dishing out???
Screaming at you..calling you stupid....... That behavior is abusive and in my world straight up fist fighting time. Don't let people push you around - some people will push you as far as you let them and try to destroy your spirit. After 2 years working as a security officer at a low income inner city apt complex and 6 bar complex I have learned how to handle these bullies. The minute and first time they square up on me .. in no uncertin terms I call them out and am ready to dance the dance. At that point - all but 1 in 100 of them will back off and wimp out. After that they treat me with the approiate respect. I am not that big of a guy 5'10'' 185 lbs but I will fight right now... for my dignity and when they know that, they leave you alone. It's sad but true.
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Location: Bella Vista, Arkansas, United States
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I think he is informing the internet how tough he is. I know I'm scared.
Ive always wanted to ask this question to one of these tough guys who likes to fight anyone who smarts off to them. Now, dont get me wrong, in my younger days I was one of "those guys" However you grow out of it with maturity and face it we live in different times now where people press charges for anything. The question would be. Say you get in a fight with someone and he takes the punch and lays down. He then calls the cops, you get charged with assault, you lose your driving career. He has a bruise that heals in a few days, you are reduced to a 10 buck an hour warehouse person with a criminal record. Now, who won that fight?
#17
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Location: Bella Vista, Arkansas, United States
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Originally Posted by Twilight Flyer
Always let them throw the first punch. Doesn't mean you have to let them hit you, but if they throw, you can go.
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Tampa
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I know it's been said already before on this site...."Settle down Frances..."When I started to read the post I could see him in his gaurd outfit puffing up with his newly polished badge and Barney Fiffe hair cut, hat all tilted on his head..."Want some!!!" "That's right you don't want none of this..."Mean while Junior Brown Highway patrol playing in the background...
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#19
Originally Posted by Sheepdancer
I think he is informing the internet how tough he is. I know I'm scared.
Ive always wanted to ask this question to one of these tough guys who likes to fight anyone who smarts off to them. Now, dont get me wrong, in my younger days I was one of "those guys" However you grow out of it with maturity and face it we live in different times now where people press charges for anything. The question would be. Say you get in a fight with someone and he takes the punch and lays down. He then calls the cops, you get charged with assault, you lose your driving career. He has a bruise that heals in a few days, you are reduced to a 10 buck an hour warehouse person with a criminal record. Now, who won that fight?
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#20
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Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Clearwater, FL
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Originally Posted by nightbright1
What kinda cra*** is that guy dishing out???
Screaming at you..calling you stupid....... That behavior is abusive and in my world straight up fist fighting time. Don't let people push you around - some people will push you as far as you let them and try to destroy your spirit. After 2 years working as a security officer at a low income inner city apt complex and 6 bar complex I have learned how to handle these bullies. The minute and first time they square up on me .. in no uncertin terms I call them out and am ready to dance the dance. At that point - all but 1 in 100 of them will back off and wimp out. After that they treat me with the approiate respect. I am not that big of a guy 5'10'' 185 lbs but I will fight right now... for my dignity and when they know that, they leave you alone. It's sad but true. |



