A Helping Hand To A Single Mom Nov 2011 - July 2014
#1
07-18-2014, 07:27 AM
A Helping Hand To A Single Mom Nov 2011 - July 2014
Ive been helping 'A single mom now! I find out shes having A good time substance abuse' losers' over to the nice apartment..
I pay for so do I' say no more yea but shes been sexually abused by grand father growing up that sad.. Her mother stoped by yesterday and removed Jay from the unit.. Me one who cares what does a good guy do? Thanks Cruzer She 28 low self esteem no High School.. Son Just Loves Her Looks at her and Smiles'... 
#2
07-20-2014, 05:45 AM
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You gotta decide, if you really are helping her or enableing her. years ago when I owned a bodyshop a car was towed in that was wrecked. The owner (single mom crying the blues) didn't have the money to replace it. I had a car out back that I had bought and was fixing to sell, well I fixed it but gave it to her instead of selling it. A couple months later she traded it in on a NEWER CAR! Seemed funny that all of a sudden she could afford payments.
One place I worked we 'adopted' a family for Christmas we collected donations and bought stuff for gifts and food, when we dellivered the stuff there was the live in boy friend and a nicer aptment than some of my coworkers had! I'm very careful who I help now,
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