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#12
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Originally Posted by shyykatt
Hmmm, can't agree w/that "Most men..." - goes both ways; Besides, I hear of more women that cheat than men, but whatever. :roll:
. It goes both ways, but men are more known to cheat than a female. Females cheat when they are unhappy. Males cheat because they like voyeurism.
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Originally Posted by landstarmissy
That is terrible! What a pig! But, sadly yes that is how most men are. I don't think I know one woman that has never been cheated on, happy or not. For some reason, most men need variety. And not just on the road because the lazy men that don't work or help around the house still for some reason cheat. Good men out there don't take this the wrong way. There are a few of you out there who are loyal and I applaud you for that! But hopefully you can sue his ass for some serious money you deserve it for all her heart ache!
But where in the HELL do you come off categorizing that "MOST" men are like this???? And the "FEW" good ones shouldn't take it the wrong way..... :evil: Just because YOU choose rotten apples does not mean that the majority of us guys are rotten :roll:
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Originally Posted by devildice
Originally Posted by landstarmissy
That is terrible! What a pig! But, sadly yes that is how most men are. I don't think I know one woman that has never been cheated on, happy or not. For some reason, most men need variety. And not just on the road because the lazy men that don't work or help around the house still for some reason cheat. Good men out there don't take this the wrong way. There are a few of you out there who are loyal and I applaud you for that! But hopefully you can sue his ass for some serious money you deserve it for all her heart ache!
But where in the HELL do you come off categorizing that "MOST" men are like this???? And the "FEW" good ones shouldn't take it the wrong way..... :evil: Just because YOU choose rotten apples does not mean that the majority of us guys are rotten :roll:
#15
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I agree..........men & women both, cheat!
They dont have to be truckers either.........office staff, firefighters, police officers, it is EVERYWHERE! It is totally a moral issue. I feel very badly for you. Whatever happened to the institution of marriage, the love, fidelity, etc............does that go out the window once the kids are born or the honeymoon is over? Sheesh! NO YOU DONT HAVE TO ANSWER THIS ONE........WE WHO HAVE SEEN IT, ALL KNOW.
#16
OP Sorry that his has happen to you. Sounds like you were the perfect wife. Some guys do not get it some times.
Originally Posted by landstarmissy
That is terrible! What a pig! But, sadly yes that is how most men are. I don't think I know one woman that has never been cheated on, happy or not. For some reason, most men need variety. And not just on the road because the lazy men that don't work or help around the house still for some reason cheat. Good men out there don't take this the wrong way. There are a few of you out there who are loyal and I applaud you for that! But hopefully you can sue his ass for some serious money you deserve it for all her heart ache!
Second Wife would fool around on me while I was out. So MOST men are not.... How would you like it if I say all Women are like that? But if you see where I am at, you know my feelings about American women. Some are good but most are out for themselves, not for the marraige anymore.
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I am not saying that women don't cheat. I know good men that have been cheated on too. So don't take it the wrong way. There are good men out there. And when I say that most men cheat, I don't mean that they currently cheat on their wives. I am saying that a majority cheat or will cheat sometime in their life. Even if it is in a petty kid relationship. The fact is, it happens and that is all I was saying. Believe me, I have nothing against men. Most of of best friends have been guys, they tend to be more loyal friends when it comes to gossiping. Perhaps I have just had bad experiences with men. I mean my dad wasn't even a good example. My mom came home one day to find him in her bed with another women. So maybe I spoke too bluntly out of angry and sympathy for her because I know what she is going through, but please don't take it the wrong way! Believe me when I say, bad women are out there too and as the one guy said alot of women are out there for themselves. We definetly have alot of golddiggers out there!
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#18
Originally Posted by landstarmissy
I am not saying that women don't cheat. I know good men that have been cheated on too. So don't take it the wrong way. There are good men out there. And when I say that most men cheat, I don't mean that they currently cheat on their wives. I am saying that a majority cheat or will cheat sometime in their life. Even if it is in a petty kid relationship. The fact is, it happens and that is all I was saying. Believe me, I have nothing against men. Most of of best friends have been guys, they tend to be more loyal friends when it comes to gossiping. Perhaps I have just had bad experiences with men. I mean my dad wasn't even a good example. My mom came home one day to find him in her bed with another women. So maybe I spoke too bluntly out of angry and sympathy for her because I know what she is going through, but please don't take it the wrong way! Believe me when I say, bad women are out there too and as the one guy said alot of women are out there for themselves. We definetly have alot of golddiggers out there!
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I am saying that a majority cheat or will cheat sometime in their life
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Originally Posted by landstarmissy
I have nothing against men. Perhaps I have just had bad experiences with men. I mean my dad wasn't even a good example.
Just wondering :?
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