Personally, I prefer a man with the same interests as me, same ideals, morals, goals, etc.
Looks aren't important. My hubby of 10 years, to me, is the best looking guy on the planet, but to most he looks the rough, tough rig pig (the kind you wouldn't want to meet in a dark alley), BUT he cleans up real good! :lol:
We have the same goals, same ideas on life, etc. We are also best friends, we can talk about literally everything! When you get to be our age (nearly 50), that's really important!
He didn't drive a truck when we met over 20 years ago, but he admired my drive & ambition & didn't feel the need to compete with me nor was he intimidated by me (so many are :cry: :cry: ). He operated heavy equipment back then & did until he decided it was time for him to quit working on the rigs (he wasn't home alot) & we bought a second truck last May. We still don't get super amounts of time, but when we do we make the most of it.
Here's a pic my daughter took of us last summer...it's my favorite of all
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