One other way to "validate" any gaps in employment is to go to a member of the Clergy....who knows you, and an Attorney, maybe one that handled the affairs of family members.... ask them to write a letter to: "To whom it may concern" explaining that you were "taking care of family business, etc. You could also go to the Doctors that took care of the now deceased family members..... and get them to write you a letter as well.
One thing that the "gap" is causing is a flag to pop up....that leads someone to think that its possible that you were a resident of the "graybar" motel and are hiding that fact. Having letters from professionals and clergy in your community....will go a long way to dispel the issue.
You might also go down to the county seat or circuit court... and get copies of your "criminal history"....or lack there of. A report of "none" is preferable, of course. 8)
These are things that I did after I sold my businesses. I took some time off before getting into this rat-race....and so I had to deal with pretty much the same issues as you, except that I was "self-employed" for the previous 9 or 10 years.... had to cough up tax filings to back that up.
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Forrest Gump was right....and some people literally strive to prove it.....everyday. Strive not to be one of "them".... And "lemmings" are a dime a dozen!
Remember: The "truth WILL set you free"! If it doesn't "set you free"....."it will trap you in the cesspool of your own design".
They lost my original "avatar"....oh well.
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