I'm sorry he wasn't able to make it in for a good visit this weekend at home. Seems sometimes these loads are just always going in the wrong directions, it's not always that way though.....it has taught us to appreciate a whole lot more the time we are able to spend together when that time gets around again.
Are there any weekend activities you and your girl can participate in over there? Maybe just making it a 'girls night' at home playing games and watching movies? I did that with my kids for awhile, we had Friday night game and movie night, found keeping things like that going on that we could look forward to around here helped us through better.
Something else that I've found is an excellent online support group for married and significant others of drivers
Really helps me when I need that bit of a boost once in awhile too
This lifestyle with our drivers isn't really comparable to too many others out there and if there aren't ones close by that deal with the lifestyle I've found it can be difficult for them to relate for things and easier for me to get 'down' on things thinking the way things are with the other's lifestyle is the way it outta be when that's not the case at all....would really be rather boring if we all followed the same paths....though the path some of us are on can be challenging at times to say the least, it can also be a good thing once we let it become one for us....there's alot that some of us that are with our drivers may not have attempted if we weren't in the situations we're in at times, something to make us stronger and know that we can get through things.........
May sound silly but when I know that it's something bothering me that I cannot do anything about (wanting someone here and I can't just reach out myself and make that happen) I have to find something to occupy my mind for awhile, I know if I sit and keep thinking on what's bothering me and don't take a break from that topic in my mind it's going to be alot rougher for me (and probably those around me too)....... doesn't really have to be anything fancy or really productive even, just something you can think of that will take at least a few minutes from you....I'll color with my kids, read them a book, just plain get down and play with them...if the kids have already went off to bed and I'm having a time with something I'll pop online for a bit, find a good book (even crossword puzzles get me to think of something else for a few minutes) Just taking a break from what's really bothering me that way usually helps me so I can get back to things with a clearer mind and really be better for me and those around me too