GMAN..
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I think there are good women out there. Unless a relationship is strong, it isn't going to hold together, whether you are on the road or at home. I believe the most important element in any relationship is communication.
I beleive you hit the nail on the head here.
To many people marry because they DON'T want to be alone ... so they jump into a marriage in order to secure the idea there will always be someone to love you. Some people are in love with the idea of 'being in love' and forget that it's a full time job to keep the relationship going strong. ... I personally have met many men in my life that only wanted someone to take care of them and use my money. ... So it does work both ways. ... If someone is going to cheat on you or only wants your money - they would do it no matter what kind of job a person has....
I hate it when people abuse others this way ... it only makes it harder for honest people like me to meet someone. ... I had to learn a long time ago that not all men were bums, cheats, liers and users .... Try not to let one bad apple spoil the whole basket.
Theres no cut and dry answer here ... people just need to take their time to get to know someone before jumping into a relationship.