truck drivers wife felt up by fatherlaw please help
 

my husband whent truckdriving he is gone to be with a trainer

well my fatherlaw came by to cut my grass and take my trash out
he got something on his shorts so he ask me if i had any shorts he could put on so he could put his in my dryer i said yes and then i whent to get a pair of shorts. when i came back to give him them he was standing in
my hallway with nothing on i turned my head and walk in the other room leav?ing the shorts in the hall he put them on. and said it is not like you have never what a man has. then he told me he like to walk around in the nude i just did not say anything then we whent in my childrens room to put there beds together and he said it is hot can you bring the fan in here and get me a drink . we had no air and it was hot in my house. so i said ok i whent and got the fan and a drink for him and he said i guse you will not let me get comfortable i said what do you mean he said take my clothing off i said no then he said if you want to you can do it too
it is no big deal but it was i said no and i went in the other room the next day we has to take my son to the emergency room because he got in to my cleaning supples and it was late and i was sleepy so
i layed on the bed with my son and we had a sheet on us. my fatherlaw was siting in the chair next to the bed when my father law put his hand under the sheet and started rubing my legs i quickley got up and acted like i had a leg cramp i did not want to cause a seen in the emergency room after we left they took us home the next day he came to help me move the cleaning supples that was in the house i was standing on the back of the toilet when he started puting his hand up my shorts i freak i told him to stop and he did and when he got ready to leave he told me he was sorry i said ok what ever then i called him on the phone to tell him that he is my father law and that i don't look at him like that and that i am married to his son and love his son dearly i have to son with his son and that this can not ever happen again he said he would never do it again i said good and hung up the phone and when his son came home i told him what happen he was upset but i don't know what to do about my fatherlaw see my motherlaw dose not know should i tell her what he did or keep it to my self
please help
from truckerwife26 :?

first off please use spell check and try to paragraph somewhat, that was entirely to hard to read and understand.
Now i see a crime that happened........can't you just say NO!...what the HELL are you doing or thinking!
Other then that, im still confused about the kids and poison etc, i don't know, please clarify for us.

I say tell her..... Her husband is a pig!

may be a lot beter to under stand felt up by my fathelaw
 

my son got in to he poisen and had to go to the ER to see if he was ok
my husband was truckdriving when it happen my fatherlaw put his hand up my shorts i told him to stop he said he was sorry and that i should forget about it i told my husband what happen he was upset but i don't think he belived me any way should i tell my motherlaw what happen
or should i not say a thing

Ok first off... it is poison sweetie... And I am glad that your son is ok...


Now let me say this... If I was married and my father in law touched me in a manner in which was not welcome... And I told my husband about it and he didn't do anything and acted as if he didn't think I was telling the truth.... Well lets just say we would be in Divorce court!

Nuff said :wink:

the thing is should I . tell my motherlaw what he did or let it go
sorry about the spelling . i tryed to fix it. my husband and i have had problems in the past with are marige. and i think thats why he don't belive me
he said he dose but deep down in my heart i feel like he thinks
i am lieiing when my father law calls i just hand the phone to my son
i can't talk to him or even face him after what he did this is one of the most hardes thing for me because last noveber i was rap we did not know the guy who rap me the guy broke in my home and rap me in front of my 2 yearold son it took me a long time to face anything . and when my father law put his hand up my shorts it made me have flash backs of when i was rap so yes i freak out becuse my fatherlaw new how hard it was for me after the rap. i have not told my fatherlaw that i told my husband what happen i just don't know if i should tell him that my husband knows what he did or tell my mother law what he did
i don't want to cause problems but i can't face my fatherlaw because
if i do i think be sick i can't even go in the bathroom were he touch me
at with out felling sick .
from truckerwife26

Please seek some counseling, you have alot on your plate, and i think a professional would help the best in your situation.
best of luck to you, maybe someone can add some advice here, but i dont know where to start.

what has hapen today with felt up by my father law
 

ok yall my fatherlaw just came over to get the lawnmower he ask me for the key to the shed so he could get the lawnmower i gave him they key and then he ask what was wrong i said nothing then i walk back to
the office he came back there after he got the lawnmower and said i will cut your grass next week if you don't mind me being here i don't mine you being here as long as you keep your hands to your self
then i told him that my husband knows what he did my fatherlaw said
you told him i said yes i am not going to keep things from him my fatherlaw then said well i told you to forget about it so if any one ask me i am going to deny it ever happen then i ask him you want my husband to think i am lieing he then said that is the way it has to be
then as he was leaving he said if you would have just keep it to your self and i said no if you would have just keep your dirty old hands to youe self he said you right and i said i was sorry then he left .

from truckers wife 26

How old are you and what kinda neighbor hood you live in this is like a jerry springer show. He should not be allowed over there again so why are you letting him over there? Have someone else cut the grass.

my fatherlaw felt me up and this is my jerry springer
 

am in a good neighbor hood and i am 27 and my fatherlaws in his 50's
any way he is not coing over to cut my grass he is coming over to get the lawnmower so he can cut his grass my husband lets him use it
i can stop him from coming over when my husband is not here but i can't do to much when my husband is home but my inlaws call every night to tell the kids good night that is stoping right now
what he did was wrong and he knows that but whats relly bad is he is going to lie about it i mean i know he made a mistake
every one makes mistakes he is only human but he is a human with a
pour grasp on whats in his league. and what is out of bounds
i am not saying what he did was ok because it was not ok i am his
daughterlaw his son wife and he should not have touch his sons wife
iam going to email him teling him he need to tell the truth
because he is not just hurting me he is hurting every one else too
he is hurting his wife , his son and his grandsons because of what he did. i will keep you updated on my jerry springer show but the only diffens is mine is real theres are fake from truckwife 26

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a truckers wife felt up by her father law
 

well the crap has hit the fan i called over at my fatherlaws today
and i told him that i did not need him to take me to the store on sunday
that i was going to get my mother to take me and i told him i just think it is
best if you stay away from here he ask me why like he dose not know and i told him because you put your hand up my shorts he said what i never didi that i said what ever and hung up on him then my mother law called back wanting to know what was going on i told her
to ask her huband she said i did he want to know to i said what ever about 15 mints later they were at my door i told my motherlaw what happen
i relly did not want to hurt my mother law but i told her she ask my
fatherlaw and he said he did not do it i called him a lier and i told him i will take a lie test any way they are still piss off at me and i don't give a dam i was in the right and i told the truth and he is going to go to hell for lireing and what he did so i am not worryed about it

from truckerwife26

tell the perv to keep his hands off ya..... and if your husband gave a shit he would tell him.... also not being rude but they do have a spell check on the bottom of this form

You sound crazy, lady. And I think it would be wise to stay away from guys that don't respect other mens' wives.

Is a forum about trucking a place you really want to air your dirty laundry?

first of all i am sorry about my spelling
2 of all i want to thank yall for helping me and your right my husband is a pig he did not belive me when i told him i was told to let it go
so i will let it go for now but i will take it to my grave that dirty old man put his hands on me . he knows the truth and i do too and
he will have to live with what he done for the rest of his life
every time that s.o..b sees me he will think about what he did
but as for telling yall whats going on in my life i have no one else
to talk to so thats why i turn to yall .... i will keep you to date with
whats new from truckerwife26

Easy-This IS the part of the Forum that says Family Support and She(?) DID say her husband was a Trucker.
I'm not sure I'm buying all of this but if it's true let her be.

it me
 

yoopr it is true my husband is driving for tmc

as for what happen i turn to yall because i have no one else to turn to
my husband dose not belive me and his family don't belive me
and my family i relly don't get to see much because my husband dose not let me see them i relly need help and yall help me
thanks i will keep you update
from trucker wife

Not too much we can do for you online except for suggestions and my Suggestion to you is to call the Police and get a restraining order against this creep.

I think you need to grow up....apparently you let eveyone and anybody run your life.
Your husband doesn't believe you and doesn't let you see your own family, that doesnt sound like a healthly relationship.

Re: truck drivers wife felt up by fatherlaw please help
 

Good MOVE..........LOL :lol: Damn what a scene :shock:

Does anyone else smell that? :roll:

i can't call the cops it would just hurt my boys if i put there grandfather in jail but i have done one better i have talk to some one about getting a lie test done sorry i can't spell tonight i have been up all night with a sick kid so when i get this done it proves i was telling the truth
then the sh*t will hit the fan for my father law you have help me a lot more then you will ever know because of this page i stud up to my in laws something i have never done before i even stood up to my husband last night i told him if he did not believe that was fine
but i am telling the truth and one day the truth will be told
and that you are going to look for me but it may be to late i would be gone . i even told him that i am 27 years old and i will go and come as i please and you will not stop me and i am going to see my mom on Thursday we are going out to dinner my parents ,the kids and me

i think i even made my in-laws mad because i told my mother law on the phone last night when she called to talk to the kids she started in on me and the kids were outside playing and i told her this I am who I am
And if it's not what you like
Then keep on walking
Or go take a hike
For I will not change
I will not conform
I'll stay as I am
And to hell
With you. she was piss off so piss off she did not even talk to the kids. i think it is funny from trucker wife 26

ya smells like a weiner with a fishy story. :shock:

Re: truck drivers wife felt up by fatherlaw please help
 

ok, tuckerswife, Ill play into your game. Heres whats fishy to me. YOU CALLED HIM AFTER HE FELT YOU UP!!!! Thats not sending the wrong message subliminally or anything. I smell a rat there. Next, you say you told your husband what his father did and he didnt do anything? Another rat, now maybe if I were your hubby I wouldnt jump to conclusions, but I would at least call my dad and just call and see (nonchelantly) if he had been there and if the stories came together and if they did then Id move to confront whoever. Now heres the third rat, should I tell my mother-in-law (thats how you do mother-in-law btw not like lady liberty or mother nature) what he did or keep it to myself. Wow, we all know your mother-in-law and know how shed react, how long theyve been married, etc. Besides hes appearantly a nudist by your accounts, so maybe they have other secrets and shes ok with it and they are laughing at you. So do you say something, thats a personal and borderline moral decision that you cant expect any help on just other peoples moral opinion.
Now, heres the trick though, I see 3 rats so either you are one messed up woman or your a woah man :shock: . On that note, the confrontation has happened, all parties know so guess what, his (feeling you up) days are done, unless you give him the opportunity. So, that means all your dirty laundry from here on out on this matter is no longer needed on here. Now, if you have a problem with a stove or if you wonder why your hubby doesnt sleep at truck stops or something like that, someone in here can help. GO TO THE LAUNDRYMAT, youve got some smelly socks BOL

frist of all you don't own this page so back off
2 i only called my father law after it happen because my husband said i should talk to him about it 3 i did not know if i should tell my mother laws because she has been thow hell and back i did not want to upset her . and i am not mess up i just had a problem i need some advice on
and most of the people in here help and the only rat i see is you
this is a Family Support Forum and my husband is a truckdriver
and i came in here for support i did what i had to i did call the
cops but i have made my fatherlaws life a living hell
so as for you i have one thing to say
if you don't like me on this page do dam bad take a WALK AND KEEP ON HICKING
EVERY ONE IN HERE HAS HELP ME WITH THE ADVICE THEY GAVE ME
FROM TRUCKERSWIFE26

Re: it me
 

In CA if someone touches you in any way and you don't want to be touched, its called assault. I don't know where you are but there could be a women's abuse shelter near you and you should tell the jerk-in-law, not to come near the house again. If your husband don't like it, find a good divorce attorney and get a "stay away" (restraining) court order against both.

Call a women's abuse hot-line and call your local police.

this is a FAMILY FORUM!!

Well if your out of the south, call jerry springer... Its going to be a great show!

This whole story i shouldnt dwell on, but its bogus or there is some serious issues, among this clan. She need not put her post her! Talks about lockin a guy up, lots of guys r in prison due 2 women with a hell bent mission. She lacks attention and brains, for example poisons 4 the last 30 yr.s they make u aware of poisons and to protect your children from them, she has the knowledge to get her but cant protect her kids from poison? Seems pertty dam stupid and shouldnt call the cops but cps. On her self!!! Her father inlaw is not the problem its her and i feel sorry 4 her husband having to support her... This is not meant to be hafeful, just meant to let her know what time it is!

Filling Up
 

I'm sorry but this sounds really to be alady crying for help due to mental problem. I'm going on to drive so I guess I'd be considered a truck driver also I was born a lady and still am so I guess if it was me I'd put the bas--d behind bars grandpa or not. And he wouldn't be the first grandpa in jail. Second I woulda told my husband why would you keep that from your soal mate. So yea I'd say she needs help in more ways than one. But to post this kinda crap on here is just totally ignorant. And every time we reply it just gives her a high to go to next step. As in family help on here it's for people whom need it not thrive on there own bullsi-t lies. So good luck to this lady. Send her a quarter to call her HUSBAND OR CALL THE LAW. OR MENTAL HELP LINE. Owait there are free no quarter here lady WRITTEN BY A LADY.

goodluck
 

goodluck

You might keep in mind that one of the purposes of this forum, and others like it, is to "help" each other. Share information, answer questions, and " help" each other. In her case, just talking about it, and not holding it in, is a form of therapy. No, we are not the professionals that she needs, but by being able to talk to us, she may also get up the courage to seek the help she needs. Read what's been said TO her about her situation. She has not been given "bad" advice. It also sounds to me like she's "living in her husband's world". Like she has no friends of her own to talk to. Do you really want to turn your back on her? I say, let her say what ever makes her feel better.

I cannot believe all the .... that have replied to this topic. First of all, non of you have a clue what this lady might be going through. Second, to assume that she's full of it, or accuse her of lying, is ignorant.

How is it you can judge someone over the Internet? What if she is for real? What morons some of you are. A little kindness does a long way; if you don't believe it, or think shes a fraud then why bother replying, just move on to another topic. Save this topic for people who have compassion, and take your self centered grouchy asses somewhere else.

Leave it to the people who want to help to post here. If shes for real, perhaps she may get some good advice and follow it. If shes a fraud, then she'll move on if you don't fan the flames.

I had a good friend go through this. People in these situations often cannot see things very clearly, for whatever reason. Often what looks obvious to those on the outside, it's so obvious to the victims.
My friend couldn't see it, and it ended up costing her life.

All you negative punks, go back to the other forums where you can complain all day about how much your company, and your job sucks and stay away from the family forum.

Just insane, the way some people are. Just assume your way through life and keep talking out of your rear.

Ok this may be a dumb question but why can't you do any of those things for yourself? Is it really that hard to take the trash out and mow the lawn? I do understand if you have some type if disability that prevents you from doing those things.

I just wish you would all use Spell Check. It's quite easy. Most of the posts are illegible and completely un-intelligible.

dont let that go unpunished tell your husband and his wife

Hi tuckerswife26,

I am also a new member of this forum, and I read your post...it sounds like not good for you.

I think after talking seriously with your husband about what happened with you while he was on the road, and he still does not realize the problem of your father-in-law brought to you... (and maybe your father-in-law will do the same for the next time when he comes). You should decide and tell your husband if he does not do anything with his dad or talk with him stop doing bad things to you, you will take your child and leave him......
You have to be confident and stronger to threaten your husband....with this way.. your husband will listen to you......and if your father-in-law still does the same things again... just call 911 to ask help from police. Because there is not any dad can treat like that with his daughter-in-law, except that dad is crazy and have mental problem.

I am sorry about your situation and I know you love your husband very much. I hope you can decide and find a best solution.

Merry Christmas to you and family

I fell awful for the original poster, I sure hope things have worked out for you and you have distanced yourself and your children from your in-laws.

And for those of you who had problems with her spelling or grammar - shame on you, she came her looking for a shoulder to cry on and a little support and you acted so superior to her because you can spell with a spell checker - get some compassion!

Obviously she was in distress and didn't give a rats ass about her spelling!