First of all I am a happily married man of 15 years! But I am on the mentality that life can throw you a curve ball. Just because we are happy now does not mean that 10 years down the road something can not and will not change.
As some might already know, in January of 2008 I plan to retire from my current job and return to trucking.
I explained to my wife that I wanted a post-nuptial to protect one (1) truck and one (1) trailer in the event that something might happen to our relationship over time!
I explained to her that the post-nuptial will only protect the one truck & trailer NOT any other assets that we may obtain over time to include: any monetary assets, additional units, land, buildings or etcs. Just one truck & trailer of my choice!
She has her masters degree in reading and is currently a literacy coach
for the local school district. She is also in the process of getting her principal degree! She has been in the education field for the past 15 years and is very passionate about her career!
In other words she has a career to fall back on!!! And I am just trying to protect my livelihood!!
Am I wrong! Am I being insensitive! She feels that marriages shouldn't have those types of agreements between!
Keep in mind I do love my wife very very much and I plan to grow old with her, but business is business!!
Honest opinions are very welcome and may I please here from some women, because I know men and women think different!!
Thanks in advance!!!