What to say to (step) daughter?
 

About a year ago my wife and I seperated. It was a smooth seperation with neither of us hating the other. She has two older children (23 and 21) who are out of the house. The younger one was living with her fiance and was to be married at the end of the month. Tonight my wife called and said that the younger one and her fiance had split up and she had moved home. I was devistated. These were two nice kids who were in love and building a future for themselves. I called her and left her a voicemail to call me. When she called back she was bawling and it just broke my heart. She and her sister were 16 and 14 when they came into my life and I love them both to death. Telling her that I was sorry and that if she needed to talk or anything she could call me anytime and telling her that I love her just didn't seem like enough. What else can a step parent do?

All you can do is listen to her and be there for her. It's great that you have that kind of relationship with your step-daughter. Like I said, the next time you talk to her, just listen. That's really important. And even though she might say bad things about her ex-fiance, refrain from saying anything nasty about him. Yes, he hurt her but she also still cares for him. And she will defend him too. Love is weird that way. :lol: :lol: Just be her shoulder to cry on.