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Hi everyone. My name is Crystal. I've been married to my hubby "Peanut" (cb handle, everyone calls him that, even out of his truck LOL) for 12 years. We have 2 daughters and a son ages 11, 8, and 6. Hubby has drove a gas tanker for a local company for 9 years and has been home every night. However, the company has cut back on overtime and that is where he made most of his money. His paycheck is missing about $600 a month. We cannot make it on this. Anyway long story short, he will be on a bus to Iowa on Sat going to TMC. I'm excited for him and scared to death at the same time. I'm not sure how we will handle him being gone so much. Any advice from you ladies on this board would be great.

From the drivers side, just remember that it will be just as hard on him, its a big change for all of you.

I really do understand that. He is putting on a brave face for me and the kids, but I know he is worried.
My dad died from lung cancer back in Jan. His last words to my husband was "take care of my baby". IF this does not work out, I know he will feel like he is letting us down as well as my dad. He is under a lot of pressure at this point. But the only way to know what will happen is to move forward.

Hey just remember this he is going with a GREAT company in TMC. They treat their drivers great. Phone calls and emails will help also. I know that you will miss him when he is gone just remember this do not overload him when he does get home give him time to decompress when he does get home.

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Wow! sounds rather drastic. Think he'll make that 600 a month more OTR? With expenses and layovers. remember, he doesn't get paid sitting.

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Wow! sounds rather drastic. Think he'll make that 600 a month more OTR? With expenses and layovers. remember, he doesn't get paid sitting.[/quote]

$600 is an est. some months it is less, but we went from cashing a $1500 paycheck(most of the time) every 2 weeks to cashing around $1200 (give or take a little)every 2 weeks. We have just bought a home and things started breaking down every time we turned around. Our furnace had repair bills in access of $500 this winter, not to mention the cost of fuel. We are living paycheck to paycheck as it is and then the company cuts hours without a raise.

And yes, I'll take that peice of cheese with my whine LOL!

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I'd seriously reconsider the financial situation in your position. What can you sacrifice to make ends meet?

I can relate to your husband's point of view as someone who had a job he really liked for nine years and change.

If he's weathered that many years, he likes what he's doing. Change is going to hit him hard. I've been there. I am there. I don't even want to think about what I'd be prepared to sacrifice to have my old life back.

Can't one of you work at Taco Bell or something to earn the extra $600?

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We don't even have a Taco Bell LOL! We have live in a small town, McDonalds is the only fast food place there is, they pay $5.15 hr, gas is 3.19 a gal, and we have 3 kids, all under the age of 12. School has let out, who will baby sit? Can't afford to pay a baby sitter, buy gas and work for 5.15 hr. We make just enough over the state guidlines to get any help from them. WV's job market sucks. Unless you have a degree of some sort, 5.15 to 5.75 is the best you can get. (or unless you have CDL's) but then the local companies want you to drive for nothing. Local companies pay around $12 hr.