So,,,, I am sorry if this subject touch some of you wrong. Valentine's is like any other Holiday,"
what you make of it" No one made you do anything that you didn't let them, Sorry.
I myself dont care for Birthdays the are traditionally pagan, but If it is important to my children or spouse(thank God he hates birthdays, that makes if funnier when I involve other people :twisted: ) I am there.
Your kids, parent and grandparents can and are your loved ones. Christmas is commercialized but I do what I feel is important and dont let others dictate how things should be.
If you want to make everyday special because you have people that love you and you love them Great! or If you take this day to remember the people you have been blessed to have in your life, Great!
Just don't go around trying to piss in my cheerios, because your unhappy.
That just aint right :evil:
To those who said they have no Valentine, I say take another Look because I bet you have a mother or father or grandparents that are sweet on you and you on them.
I have wonderful memories of my Grandpa bringing all five of us girls presents, He was such a sweet and caring man, truly none made of that mold anymore.
Now to answer my own question,
For my husband, He is simple and easy to take care of , I neither need money nor presents to satisfy him on any holiday. I will leave it at that
My boys are so sweet every year they gather together their money and either at the dollar store or a near by store to bring home something for me.
Boys are very much a blessing to their mother, my boys are protective of me and helpful. That is all the Valentine I need.