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Originally Posted by geargrinder
You actually think you are hurting someone's feelings? Boy do you have warped opinion of your self importance.
You and the other Mr. Low Expectations should become a team operation.
The "love" or your truck indicates to me that it must be nicer than your single wide at the Lazy Dayz Trailer Park.
A point by point rebuttal tells me you are again waiting somewhere and are whiling away your time. Must be one of them shippers or receivers that are so happy to see you that they don't want you to leave.
I still haven't decided if I should pity you, or be happy for you. In any event, it seems you found your life's calling - BREAKER ONE NINE!
I don't have low expectations, quite the contrary. I came into the industry with the same thoughts and ideas everyone else has when they come on here asking questions. However I listened to what everyone said, and I set realistic expectations, I didn't set myself up for false hopes, and guess what? I did better then my own lowered expectations even with the largest and evilest of all carriers in North America! Also if you had ever read any of my other posts, you would find that I think one can make good money in the first couple years of this industry, however you have to play your cards right. But you will never know how to play them if you are too stubborn to listen to those that do it every day, day in and day out.
Also if you ever bothered to read any of my other posts, including the post just before yours, you would of gotten the clue that I DO NOT MAINTAIN A HOME! My truck is my home, I use a relatives address for my license, but I certainly don't live there. And what is wrong with double wide trailers, you like to stereotype people for the type of home they do live in?
Also if you had followed one of my threads, you would know I am in a 'transition' right now. Actually I need to post an update there... but basically I go back OTR next week, I am doing some local work for someone right now while I wait for the small 3 truck company I am going to be driving for get's his 4th truck, and even then, I don't go crazy trying to burn myself out doing 3000+ miles a week because I get paid .26cpm and can't afford to live unless the truck is moving 11 hours a day, no, I drive for companies that actually pay me what I am worth and treat me like a human being, and I drive smarter not harder.
And you know what, I drove for SWIFT for 6 months OTR, I had a preventable, was put out of the game for almost a year, and managed to get back in with an O/O, drove for him for the last 3 months. He couldn't afford to run the truck anymore so he leased it out to someone. The person he leased it too is an agent for a larger company, that was not able to qualify me because of my preventable, so I am doing some local work for him under HIS authority until this other guy gets the truck ready for me so I can go back OTR. That right there is 9 months verifable OTR experience. When I had that preventable, everyone on here told me I was screwed, it would be years before I would be able to drive for anyone again, most of the small companies want 2+ years experince, etc etc etc. But I worked my arse off to get back into the business, took me a year, but I did it. I say all this because I want to show people that it is not impossible to advance and suceed in this industry because of a mistake or lack of time put in. It certainly isn't easy, and quite honestly I am one of the few to beat some of the odds. But I will tell you this, I learned more in the last few months then I would of ever learned driving for a mega carrier.
NOW with ALL of that said... There are people popping in ALL of the time on this forum with no knowaldge or understanding of this industry, and all they have are preconcieved notions that it pays good, and have this wierd idea that it is some amazing, enchanted job to have. Those of us with any experience will try to explain to them the realities of it, and see a picture painted so different then what they thought, and it makes it look so negative, then you get those that have been in the industry, and get screwed usually because of their own mistakes, and try to paint and even more negative picture. Hey, I had an accident, it was my own damn fault, I learned from it, got back on the horse and now when I ride I am a hell of a lot more careful.
I love what I do, but IT IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!! Plain and simple.
Now I will get off of my soap box