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Originally Posted by Jimbo56
Thanks for the honest and frank analysis Gman. You have a way with words. Essentially, you are telling me to look elsewhere and my past employment history is one of the problems with this industry. I certainly hope not and I'm not ready to give up just yet. Not only that, you were polite and never used a single four letter word, although many reading this post could have responded quite differently. In my defense, I would like to explain a few things. My problems with the trucking industry were not caused by my dispatcher, company, my ability to maneuver in tight spaces nor back into a tight dock. I never abandoned a vehicle or did anything that wasn't requested of me. My issues were caused by growing teenagers that had failed to mature at the rate that either myself and society had established. One is now doing quite well in the US Army and the other has gainful employment in Florida. My issues are resolved and now it is a matter of getting back on the horse, which is proving quite difficult.
I see no need to call people names or put them down, Jimbo56. Most come on here seeking honest answers to their questions. I don't think we need to put them down.
I am glad that your children have found their way. That is something that needs to be explained to any potential employer. Some may cut you some slack, others may not. One major problem you have is that you don't have any current experience. Insurance companies look for current otr experience. My insurance company requires a minimum of 2 years of current experience before they will cover them. Some of the large carriers can get around this because some self insure up to a certain point so the exposure to the insurance company is more limited. Another way large carriers get around this is because of the number of trucks and drivers they have in their system.
If you can't get into this industry due to the job hopping, then I suggest that you find something else you can do for a while and stick with it. By staying with an employer for a year or two you are showing that you are attempting to change your behavior. Current positive behavior can overcome some negative behavior that is several years old.
I would never tell anyone to abandon their dreams. The path that leads to success doesn't always run in a straight line. Sometimes we need to take a detour to get to where we need or want to go. The challenges and adversities we face in our lives make us strong and enable us to grow.