First of all, I don't like T.O. any more than the next guy. I am a huge Dallas fan and think that despite his talent, it was a mistake to bring him aboard.
That said, all the news stories pointed to him attempting suicide due to his depression.
You said: "just another underworked, overpaid crybaby that can't hack the world"
In my personal opinion, that was cold, callous, and thoughtless and I stand by my assertation. The fact that you feel the need to defend yourself, cements that in stone. My comments were said in defense of those that suffer from depression, regardless of who they are, and what they have do to survive each and every day.
I have dealt with depression from both sides of the fence. If you haven't, then you look bad, end of story. I would suggest volunteering at a mental health clinic to get a good idea of how difficult it is for people to beat depression. If you have dealt with it, then I am at a loss as to why you would make the comments that you did.
Either way, I'm done discussing it. You have a good day.