Trukrswyfe |
02-18-2008 03:12 PM |
IE am too sorry to hear about your loss. We have also suffered such a loss, and it can be painful for years to come.
Not sure whether this would encourage you or not, but I have a hope of meeting my child who I didn't know personally but named , loved and carried with me for months.
I do understand people give false or naive statements to cope with loss. But I heard my childs heart beat and that is enough for me to know She was a life, cut short, but a life none the less. All life has value and meaning.
Though I dont know for sure, I believe she was my only daughter, as I have only sons. I was unsure at the time how much I wanted her but with her loss I never again took pregancy for granted.
So she impacted my life positively even with her short stay, I became a more thankful person.
God Bless
TW
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