Thanks for the replies. He can get frustrated out on the road, and I get to hear all of his frustrations. He tends to be a controling person. I knew this when I married him. I know I have my faults, but he doesn't hae to yell about what he finds fault with though.

I have noticed that the more he is stressed, the more uptight he gets. As the one poster said, guys keep it bottled up. I just guess the bottle gets opened around me. If he is not stressed and everything is going, good he is fine.

Things are looking better right now. Well, if only his new dispatcher can get him home. That is for another post.

Can't say that I've ever left home angry, a bit sad though. I'm always very happy to get home and I hate leaving, unless my better half's riding with me.