MamaDrivesTruck |
04-11-2007 03:14 PM |
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Originally Posted by b'hamWa
Hey, being 54, i relate to your guy's Moms then I relate to you guys...Who says we have to act like someones "mom or dad" now, we are old enough to do what we want without the benefit of our kids judgements. right now, it sounds like more about YOU then them.
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Hello b'ham Wa.
You're right about her being old enough to be centering on her own life, and I agree. Yes, I would like to have my mother back, the one who less then a year ago would be with her grandkids and myself, the one who WAS my best friend now that we are all grown up and treating each other like adults. The one who made promises and kept them, and the one who wasn't out possibly contracting some kind of STD then not caring enough to get checked out before kissing MY kids. Yes, call me selfish if you like, but I prefer the other lady that existed before all of this.
Basically if she wants to go and do her own thing, I just wish she would keep it to herself. But since she isn't, yes, its effecting me and yes, I am being selfish about the fact that I don't like it. I stated I wasn't insulting my mothers choices, they are hers to make. I also stated that my original post was about how it was effecting me. I said that from the beginning.
Thank you,
April
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