sorry this happened to you. but it has been known that many times when one spouse supports the other for an education to better the family, the recipient of that support bails.
live your life to the fullest, with your off spring, and toss him to the side of the road like the torn up rag that he is. then someday when he "comes a knocking", slam the door in his face. let your child know how the dad walked out. do not sugar-coat it for the child's sake. do this of course when the child is older (unless you already did), and let the child know for him/herself how to proceed with the relationship with the dad.
from a male point of view, he is a cad. he deserves nothing from you.
here's another thought, if you 2 had been married for at least 10 years, you can actually obtain HIS social security......even if, you get divorced..
check on that.
just never tell him.
also, as you read the link, try NOT to earn as much as a trucker.....then you ""got him", by the short hairs.......he won't see that coming, when he retires....lol
even if he has to go out on disability...YOU CAN GET HALF OF THAT as well.......
Note: Your benefit as a divorced spouse is equal to one-half of your ex-spouse's full retirement amount (or disability benefit) if you start receiving benefits at your full retirement age. The benefits do not include any delayed retirement credits your ex-spouse may receive.
https://www.ssa.gov/planners/retire/divspouse.html
HOLY CRAP....she ain't been here since 2014....!!!!
thanks for bringing up a DEAD thread...@AliceArifova........!!!!!!!
did it ever occur to you, that DEAD threads are DEAD for a reason...???
now here i was, not paying any attention to the start date, trying to help this gal......
SHE WILL NEVER RETURN HERE.....>!!!!!
all for a DEAD THREAD...nice job...ALICE.....