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otrwife · Joined: 08 Mar 2008 Posts: 8

Forgiveness is a big thing, I am almost there. Unfortunately any love I have ever felt is turning to hate. He chose the open road over his secure loving family. I know I am not perfect, but I would never cheat, steal nor lie to make myself better. I made a commitment and I have children who need stability. Guess I should have opened my eyes wider. Thanks for listening and I do not mind advice. I believe it helps people look at things in different ways and makes us think more.
Again STAY SAFE EVERYONE AND GOD BLESS
otrwife

tam81 · Joined: 07 Oct 2006 Posts: 7 Location: PA

I know what it is like to be married to a man that lies like a rug. Mine is gone for 5 days and for the last month he has come home for home time and has gone and gotten a hotel room and then he comes home on the day he is to go back to work like it is ok.
The liar that he is went and stayed in a hotel about an hour from our home and tried to tell me he was at his job in upstate ny at a drivers meeting and I knew in my heart he was not there.
I did get my proof when I got an email from the hotel he stayed in on that day being as to how I booked at this chain in the past online and gave them my email address and to top it all off the woman that he fell in love with is from where he was staying so I put 2 and 2 together and realized he lied to me yet again.
And now he has her out on the road with him and is trying to make me believe he is alone but we have been gone since wednesday and all he has done was sent me a few texts and gave me a nasty call that night so i just told him to have fun with her because I know he is not alone.
I now realize I need to get over him and finalize the divorce and move on and let her have his lying butt until she wises up and see his true colors.
He will never change and I do know what it is like to be married to a liar.
It is hard but try to move on.

otrwife · Joined: 08 Mar 2008 Posts: 8

I have been extremely busy and have not had a chance to listen or vent. I still have the husband problem cheating, lieing, stealing and spending money. The best things that have happened lately, 2 of my daughters graduated from college, and 1 from high school, my son made the high school football team, and my youngest daughter made the cheerleading squad in middle school, and I have finally added another year to my teaching certificate. I just wanted to boast about something good in my life.

I guess going through all this with the cheating ............ has taught me a lot, I am closer to divorce than I have been in awhile. I refinanced my home and my vehicle, my schooling has upped my salary 3000 yr. I can finally make it with out him.

Most men, some women will never change it is all about them, like this week since we did refinance we had to come up with a large sum of money ( it was well worth it) so now I am broke and can't buy any food or pay any bills for a couple of weeks.I always figure something out, my kids come first. Unfortunately the first thing my husband did was grab a cash advance and tonight is in Wisconsin eating and drinking and playing pool. If anyone sees a man named Ron and he is playing pool at Tilly's Pub in Rothschild, Wisconsin tell him he is a loser. He has a beautiful family that has had enough with his lies. I can not tell you all how much this forum means to me I feel so good when I can vent and when I read about others I feel for them. The best thing I can tell everyone who is in this position, just pray and believe and the Lord will see you through. Hang in there and realize when a spouse cheats or lies, it is their problem they can't cope and then take the easy way out. God bless all of you out there, drive safe and have a great week.
THanks for all your help
otrwife

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