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mommee
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 8:37 am Post subject: Compliments and Men |
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How do you give a man a compliment without him thinking that you are interested in him or are hitting on him? It seems if you want to say something nice about their clothes or looks, they usually end up getting the wrong idea.
Before gears start turning, I am just asking a general question. There are many men here. I would like your opinion, as well as the females, of course.
okay, now it says "clothes" :wink: :lol: |
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Fredog
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 9:16 am Post subject: Re: Compliments and Men |
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mommee wrote: How do you give a man a compliment without him thinking that you are interested in him or are hitting on him? unless he is a friend or relativeYOU DONT It seems if you want to say something nice about their dress or looks, they usually end up getting the wrong idea.
Before gears start turning, I am just asking a general question. There are many men here. I would like your opinion, as well as the females, of course. |
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Ridge Runner
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 11:44 am Post subject: |
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| That's just a chance that you'll take and it works BOTH ways. |
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roadhog
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:04 pm Post subject: |
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You slap him first and say "I want you to pay attention."
Then slap him again...to clear his mind.
Tell him your compliment...then slap him even harder... because you know he only heard what he wanted to hear. :?
Before he recovers...slap him a couple more times...just to be sure.
Then ask him if he is okay and did he understand you. If he smiles...then you need to follow through and put your back into those slaps more. :? |
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mommee
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:18 pm Post subject: |
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Ridge Runner wrote: That's just a chance that you'll take and it works BOTH ways.
You're right. OMG, a woman admits a man is right :oops: . I am guilty of thinking the same thing when someone pays me a compliment.
Roadhog-I'll try that next time. When are you in town? :lol: |
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Orangetxguy
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:19 pm Post subject: |
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roadhog wrote: You slap him first and say "I want you to pay attention."
Then slap him again...to clear his mind.
Tell him your compliment...then slap him even harder... because you know he only heard what he wanted to hear. :?
Before he recovers...slap him a couple more times...just to be sure.
Then ask him if he is okay and did he understand you. If he smiles...slap him some more. :?
LOL... :shock: :shock: what happens if she be slappin one of them guy's what enjoy's it??? :twisted: :twisted: :lol: :lol: :lol: |
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Ridge Runner
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:24 pm Post subject: Re: Compliments and Men |
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mommee wrote: How do you give a man a compliment without him thinking that you are interested in him or are hitting on him? It seems if you want to say something nice about their dress or looks, they usually end up getting the wrong idea.
Before gears start turning, I am just asking a general question. There are many men here. I would like your opinion, as well as the females, of course.
Just a thought......but you might be asking the wrong group here. :lol: |
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mommee
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:30 pm Post subject: |
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I'm definitely asking the right group. You guys will give me honest answers, being "guys".
And now I will pay all of you a compliment. All of you have behaved like quite the gentleman towards me and I thank you for it. |
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roadhog
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:32 pm Post subject: |
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| should I slap myself? :? |
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Ridge Runner
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:40 pm Post subject: |
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mommee wrote: I'm definitely asking the right group. You guys will give me honest answers, being "guys".
And now I will pay all of you a compliment. All of you have behaved like quite the gentleman towards me and I thank you for it.
Cool! So how about a hooter shot? :mrgreen: :twisted: ( Just kidding ) |
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Orangetxguy
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:52 pm Post subject: |
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Ridge Runner wrote: mommee wrote: I'm definitely asking the right group. You guys will give me honest answers, being "guys".
And now I will pay all of you a compliment. All of you have behaved like quite the gentleman towards me and I thank you for it.
Cool! So how about a hooter shot? :mrgreen: :twisted: ( Just kidding )
:shock: :shock: Did YOU really type that Ridge??? :wink: :wink: |
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wot i life
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 12:56 pm Post subject: Re: Compliments and Men |
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mommee wrote: How do you give a man a compliment? It seems if you want to say something nice about their dress or looks, they usually end up getting the wrong idea.
How many blokes do you know that wear dresses then? Cor Lummey! Strewth! You,re from Kent aint ya? |
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Ridge Runner
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 1:01 pm Post subject: Re: Compliments and Men |
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wot i life wrote: mommee wrote: How do you give a man a compliment? It seems if you want to say something nice about their dress or looks, they usually end up getting the wrong idea.
How many blokes do you know that wear dresses then? Cor Lummey! Strewth! You,re from Kent aint ya?
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roadhog
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Calling a mans cloths....Dress...that is English...hey Wot! :lol:
actually we have a lot of men who would like a compliment about their dress.
Me?...I'm just into thongs....so I guess I'm kinda European. :D
You Scootish started it with the dresses and no underwear. Kilts? you call them?...and whats that a fanny pack you wear too? only in the front?
You can take our wives...but you cannae tak our FREEDOM!
Ahhhh the Moon over Scootlund! |
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shyykatt
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| Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 1:44 pm Post subject: Re: Compliments and Men |
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mommee wrote: How do you give a man a compliment without him thinking that you are interested in him or are hitting on him? It seems if you want to say something nice about their dress or looks, they usually end up getting the wrong idea.
Before gears start turning, I am just asking a general question. There are many men here. I would like your opinion, as well as the females, of course.
I'd be concerned if he's wearing a dress :P |
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