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Trukrswyfe
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Dont try to hard you will seem desperate, Maybe watch Hitch. I dont really know too much about dating, sorry. Thankfully I missed all that stuff. Just as a person though people who try to hard or ask too many question repel me. Keep thing simple mention things you would like to do and see if she agrees. Then go together. I think we women like jerks the bigger the jerk the more we like them. Crazy I know.
Here is a secret: Act some what interested then ask completely uninterested, We women love a challenge too. Oh I am speaking for myself and the five sister I was brought up with. no one else.
Best of Luck
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golfhobo
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Mommee said:
Quote: Men say they like independent and strong women....we all aren't wimpy and need a man around constantly. I can and do hold down the fort.
Men LIE!! And SO do women! Men don't REALLY want a strong woman, because they want to be the dominant one in the relationship. Most men are AFRAID of strong women, because they don't want the hassle of the power struggle!
They only SAY they want a 'strong woman' because, thanks to Women's Lib, women WANT to be appreciated for being STRONG! So, if we SAY we 'appreciate' that in a woman, and play to your self-interests, we MIGHT get "lucky!" :lol:
Likewise, women SAY they want a "sensitive" man! There are literally hundreds of magazines proclaiming this! It's a LIE!!! You're lying to US... and to yourselves! Women want a JERK!! GOD only knows WHY.... but it is TRUE (as a rule.)
Problem for US is..... there are LOTS of male "jerks" out there! It is part of their DNA to know how to "act" sensitive just long enough to HOOK their fish! But, a sensitive man, only LOOKS like a jerk, when he tries to ACT like a jerk to get your attention! You see right through him, and pass him by for the REAL jerk.... who is ACTING like he is sensitive because you have promised yourself that THAT is what you are looking for! Aaaargh!! :evil:
Like Truckrswyfe said..... ACT interested just long enough to make them THINK you are interested in their VIRTUOUS facade, because that makes you SEEM like the kind of man who would love the person they WISH they were! Then, pack up your tackle, and let the FISH come to YOU! Because THEY really want an "independant" man, who couldn't care LESS if he had a woman or not! They certainly don't WANT to have to be your MOTHER!
Dang! Now I've given myself a headache!! Trying to figure out women will DO that to a man! :roll: |
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mommee
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That's why I said-Men say they want an independent and strong woman. I didn't say that's what they really wanted.
After reading that last post, I have a headache myself. I am so confused. :shock:
Please don't explain again :lol: |
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golfhobo
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mommee wrote: That's why I said-Men say they want an independent and strong woman. I didn't say that's what they really wanted.
After reading that last post, I have a headache myself. I am so confused. :shock:
Please don't explain again :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Probably couldn't if I WANTED to!! :shock:
I'd get it all confused and backwards, and I would come out knowing LESS than I "THINK" I do NOW! :lol: :lol:
In the Beginning, God made MAN. THEN..... just to F#CK with him, he made WOMAN! Who says God doesn't have a sense of HUMOR??? :wink: |
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Trukrswyfe
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| Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 4:44 pm Post subject: |
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delete response to Golf,
:wink: We made up. |
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mommee
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| Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 4:50 pm Post subject: |
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golfhobo wrote:
Who says God doesn't have a sense of HUMOR??? :wink:
I know God has a sense of humor. I am living proof of that... :lol: :lol: :lol: |
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golfhobo
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Mack2
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| Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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golfhobo wrote: Mommee said:
Quote: Men say they like independent and strong women....we all aren't wimpy and need a man around constantly. I can and do hold down the fort.
Men LIE!! And SO do women! Men don't REALLY want a strong woman, because they want to be the dominate one in the relationship. Most men are AFRAID of strong women, because they don't want the hassle of the power struggle!
They only SAY they want a 'strong woman' because, thanks to Women's Lib, women WANT to be appreciated for being STRONG! So, if we SAY we 'appreciate' that in a woman, and play to your self-interests, we MIGHT get "lucky!" :lol:
Likewise, women SAY they want a "sensitive" man! There are literally hundreds of magazines proclaiming this! It's a LIE!!! You're lying to US... and to yourselves! Women want a JERK!! GOD only knows WHY.... but it is TRUE (as a rule.)
Problem for US is..... there are LOTS of male "jerks" out there! It is part of their DNA to know how to "act" sensitive just long enough to HOOK their fish! But, a sensitive man, only LOOKS like a jerk, when he tries to ACT like a jerk to get your attention! You see right through him, and pass him by for the REAL jerk.... who is ACTING like he is sensitive because you have promised yourself that THAT is what you are looking for! Aaaargh!! :evil:
Like Truckrswyfe said..... ACT interested just long enough to make them THINK you are interested in their VIRTUOUS facade, because that makes you SEEM like the kind of man who would love the person they WISH they were! Then, pack up your tackle, and let the FISH come to YOU! Because THEY really want an "independant" man, who couldn't care LESS if he had a woman or not! They certainly don't WANT to have to be your MOTHER!
Dang! Now I've given myself a headache!! Trying to figure out women will DO that to a man! :roll:
Was that really suposed to help :?: :? :shock: |
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4roses
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Mack2 ..
[/quote]I have a question for you women. How do you ask a gril out without making a complete fool of yourself? Which I always seem to do.[quote]
Mack maybe this is only what 'you' feel. I doubt seriously that every woman you talk to see you this way .. .... Heck :roll: .... why do you think it's hard for some of us ladies to start the conversation .... we feel the same as you 8) ... stop putting yourself down. Seriously, stop it :!: ... people do pick up on others - self impression of themselves - I've met some real nice men with very low self esteem and it's not very attractive. .... I'm sure you have alot of interest and qualities that some women would be drawn too. .... keep at it - you'll find her :wink: .... I'm sure what I've said doesn't help, but it's what came to me when I read your post :wink: |
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golfhobo
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Mack 2 said:
Quote: Was that really suposed to help?
Well.... it might not have helped YOU..... but "I" feel alot better now! :lol: :lol:
All I REALLY know is..... NEVER ask a woman to dance if she is bouncing around and dancing in her seat. She will usually say "NO!" :shock:
Go figure! 8) |
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mommee
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| Posted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 12:26 pm Post subject: |
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Hobo-
You dance? :shock: That sounds scary :lol: |
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golfhobo
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mommee wrote: Hobo-
You dance? :shock: That sounds scary :lol:
Like you wouldn't BELIEVE, Mommee!! :lol:
Who do you think taught Travolta those "moves?" Seriously, back in my "disco days" (I know... I know.... but there are few on here who didn't live through it......) I won several contests!
I kinda gave it all up though, when the style changed to all this flailing arms, neck dislocating, robot crap!
Oh yeah..... HOBO's got rhythm!! :lol: :lol: |
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COLT
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| Posted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 2:09 pm Post subject: |
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golfhobo wrote:
Oh yeah..... HOBO's got rhythm!! :lol: :lol:
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golfhobo
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Well...... I didn't SAY how I GOT it!! :wink:
Apparently, you couldn't FIND the picture of the irate husband with the scattergun! 8) |
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Mack2
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for4roses wrote: Mack2 ..
I have a question for you women. How do you ask a gril out without making a complete fool of yourself? Which I always seem to do. Quote:
Mack maybe this is only what 'you' feel. I doubt seriously that every woman you talk to see you this way .. .... Heck :roll: .... why do you think it's hard for some of us ladies to start the conversation .... we feel the same as you 8) ... stop putting yourself down. Seriously, stop it :!: ... people do pick up on others - self impression of themselves - I've met some real nice men with very low self esteem and it's not very attractive. .... I'm sure you have alot of interest and qualities that some women would be drawn too. .... keep at it - you'll find her :wink: .... I'm sure what I've said doesn't help, but it's what came to me when I read your post :wink:
Acctually it sort of makes some since.
I'm thankful for the advice For4Roses. |
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