I would see if you could find someone who does that now and could show you/her the ropes. I imagine there may be a dispatching service in your area that handles finding escort vehicles for oversize loads and all you would have to do is sign up with them. You may try to search for trucking companies that haul oversize loads in your area and send them information directly.
Perhaps someone else on the forum who hauls oversize in your region can give you more information.
Nothing is foolproof to a talented fool.
The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way
Where many paths and errands meet.
And whither then? I cannot say.
Most of those escorters are used for drivers toting mobile homes/oversize construction materials/heavy machinery. You may want to look into those industries for that type of job. Only thing is, I bet that it's not a full time job just escorting alone. I bet the guys that escort also do other construction stuff or actually assemble or help take off the items that are shipped. Is your mother capable of doing that type of thing as well?
My sense of humor is often sitting on my shoulder or chirping her head off in her cage.
Also looking for information on escort/pilot vehicles positions... I know about the (in Oklahoma) classes, certification and insurance requirements, but can't seem to break the glass ceiling on finding out about available positions or anything about possible positions. Seems like a private club... can anyone help? I'll drive anywhere...in the US that is!