A little bit of attention goes a long way. And, there are some people that can never get enough and that will suck the life out of you. Just being "married" does not give a woman the sense of stability. vavega is right, one day - you could come home to an empty house. Time is not about quantity, it is about quality. Everyone who has a career knows that they wont get to spend as much time as they would like with the ones they love. But, a mature person accepts that. I don't even get to spend as much time with my kids as I would like but...I have to work to support them and be able to give them what they need and some of what they want. As a matter of fact, my kids and my career have wreaked havoc on more than one relationship for me. And I always felt "lonely"...until I began to think aobut how grateful I was to have what I had, rather than constantly fretting over not having a partner. Now, I feel no anxiety over being alone ever. I would date, if I wanted to but I have the choice now. I feel much more confident and I can tell you one thing seriously...confidence (not arrogance) is soooo sexy in a man.



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... And pettiness takes away from CAD.
