
Originally Posted by
NevadaJim

Originally Posted by
glasman2
I'll be honest with you.
I don't drive yet... I start school next Monday.
When I "DO" start driving, last thing I want is someone with "only" 6 months under his/her belt. I would refuse you.
I'm gonna play devils advocate just for discussion purposes. You haven't driven yet and you're going to refuse a trainer with 6 months. Based on what? Someone that has never driven doesn't know right from wrong, doesn't have a clue if what he's being taught is correct. You haven't been out with a trainer yet, so you don't have anything to make a comparison on. I'm just curious what you would base this refusal on. I hope there is some logic behind it and not just opinion or something you read on a forum somewhere. I will be starting school soon too, so I'm curious what matrix you use to determine if someone is a suitable trainer for you, as an idividual, and why. Your ideas may help some of us in the same situation.
Call it a gut feeling. Part of this is, I feel a "good" trainer should have 3 to 5 years under his/her belt. With 6 months and having a bad trainer, not learning anything from him and being self taught, I don't see how he/she would know all the ins or outs of trucking yet. My feelings on a self taught driver with 6 months would be a danger to myself and others on the road.
Here he is.... 6 months.... had a crappy trainer..... learning on his own.... and "Thinks" he is a better trainer than others. Yet is still "Learning".
I want someone that can answer off the wall questions if needed, not someone that says "well I'm not sure" or tries to make up an answer.
Years ago I was out there with a friend ( whom is a truck driver ). I was just going for the ride and checking it out. He had been driving for 10 years, so I felt good about going out on the road with him. He knew what he was doing and answered a lot of questions I had at the time. So it's not like I haven't been out on the road, I just wasn't driving. He would point out stupid stuff that "other drivers" were doing and tell me why is was stupid or a danger to others on the road.
My answer has nothing to do with what I have read on here, it's how I feel about going out with someone with a good amount of time under his/her belt, that would "know" what to do should an emergency arise, and not panic and do the wrong thing and get us both killed.
If the company that I want to work for hires me, I already have a trainer set up. It's another friend that has been driving for 5 1/2 years. I feel good about this for 2 reasons. 1 he has 5 years under his belt with no tickets or accidents, or violations. 2 we are friends so we already get along, and we already talked about ( several times ) the training, ie if I do something "really stupid" he might raise his voice, mostly out of panic.
I can understand "some yelling" or "raised voice" if someone or I would do something "really stupid" BUT I also told him if I felt the yelling wasn't called for I would yell back. He said "fair enough", then we would talk about it. I really don't see that happening ( yelling ) because I'm a safe driver and always look for hazards now. When your driving a 37 foot motor home you always check your mirrors, intersections, ect, same with driving a motorcycle, which I own and drive both. Yes it's not the same, but it's close as far as hazards go. You can't stop a motor home on a dime and need to know what is around you at all times. Same as a motorcycle, most people don't see you, and you need to know where you can go to avoid an emergency.
I can understand where the OP is coming from.... He had a bad trainer.... he wants to be a better trainer, and I think he is thinking in the right direction, but I also think he needs more time under his belt.
This is just my opinion, my gut feeling. Who knows... he "could" turn out to be a good trainer, but I don't want to take that chance.
Now he, you, or anyone on this board can bash me for my opinion/gut feelings, but it's not going to change my mind.