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Originally Posted by Roadhog
2-12-2013 post# 146 … that's on page 8 for me.
I don't know what that time adds up to, using common core math?
Congrats on the new Hobo in the family. May the child soften you up, grumpy… I mean grampy. hahaha
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Well... you KNOW I'm not good at research, but... that was about the time I made contact. What I MEANT to say was... about 3 years since I FOUND her, on facebook, and started this process.
I guess I need to "nail down" some dates so that I won't be a babbling idiot in my old age. I FOUND her on facebook in the spring of 2012. I CONTACTED her in the spring of 2013, and had my first encounters with her almost immediately that spring.
In the spring of 2014... she got remarried and INSISTED that I be there! I made sure that I WAS! I had already spent about 3 weeks with HER and the kiddos!
I "stopped in" for breakfast with her, Aaron, and the kiddos (with my brother along,) about a month ago.
And we had plans (sort of) for a beach trip this spring. But.... it looks like I may have to settle for being there sometime this FALL.... when the baby is born!
Another dilemma! I don't want to "barge in" when her "other parents" are cooing over their new grandbaby! But... I don't want to seem unexcited!
I'm thinking a few weeks after birth... when things have settled down. Not Thanksgiving... OR Christmas... but, somewhere inbetween.
I would LOVE to be there for the birth... but, I think I'd be in the way, a distraction, perhaps.... a detraction.
But... there's a part of me that wants to BE THERE for this birth!
What would YOU do? lol.