truck drivers wife felt up by fatherlaw please help

[Rev.Vassago]

Does anyone else smell that?

[tuckerswife26]

i can't call the cops it would just hurt my boys if i put there grandfather in jail but i have done one better i have talk to some one about getting a lie test done sorry i can't spell tonight i have been up all night with a sick kid so when i get this done it proves i was telling the truth
then the sh*t will hit the fan for my father law you have help me a lot more then you will ever know because of this page i stud up to my in laws something i have never done before i even stood up to my husband last night i told him if he did not believe that was fine
but i am telling the truth and one day the truth will be told
and that you are going to look for me but it may be to late i would be gone . i even told him that i am 27 years old and i will go and come as i please and you will not stop me and i am going to see my mom on Thursday we are going out to dinner my parents ,the kids and me

i think i even made my in-laws mad because i told my mother law on the phone last night when she called to talk to the kids she started in on me and the kids were outside playing and i told her this I am who I am
And if it's not what you like
Then keep on walking
Or go take a hike
For I will not change
I will not conform
I'll stay as I am
And to hell
With you. she was piss off so piss off she did not even talk to the kids. i think it is funny from trucker wife 26

[stevedb28]

Does anyone else smell that?

ya smells like a weiner with a fishy story. :shock:

[stevedb28]

my husband whent truckdriving he is gone to be with a trainer

then i called him on the phone to tell him that he is my father law and that i don't look at him like that and that i am married to his son and love his son dearly i have to son with his son and that this can not ever happen again he said he would never do it again i said good and hung up the phone and when his son came home i told him what happen he was upset but i don't know what to do about my fatherlaw see my motherlaw dose not know should i tell her what he did or keep it to my self
please help
from truckerwife26 :?

ok, tuckerswife, Ill play into your game. Heres whats fishy to me. YOU CALLED HIM AFTER HE FELT YOU UP!!!! Thats not sending the wrong message subliminally or anything. I smell a rat there. Next, you say you told your husband what his father did and he didnt do anything? Another rat, now maybe if I were your hubby I wouldnt jump to conclusions, but I would at least call my dad and just call and see (nonchelantly) if he had been there and if the stories came together and if they did then Id move to confront whoever. Now heres the third rat, should I tell my mother-in-law (thats how you do mother-in-law btw not like lady liberty or mother nature) what he did or keep it to myself. Wow, we all know your mother-in-law and know how shed react, how long theyve been married, etc. Besides hes appearantly a nudist by your accounts, so maybe they have other secrets and shes ok with it and they are laughing at you. So do you say something, thats a personal and borderline moral decision that you cant expect any help on just other peoples moral opinion.
Now, heres the trick though, I see 3 rats so either you are one messed up woman or your a woah man :shock: . On that note, the confrontation has happened, all parties know so guess what, his (feeling you up) days are done, unless you give him the opportunity. So, that means all your dirty laundry from here on out on this matter is no longer needed on here. Now, if you have a problem with a stove or if you wonder why your hubby doesnt sleep at truck stops or something like that, someone in here can help. GO TO THE LAUNDRYMAT, youve got some smelly socks BOL

[tuckerswife26]

frist of all you don't own this page so back off
2 i only called my father law after it happen because my husband said i should talk to him about it 3 i did not know if i should tell my mother laws because she has been thow hell and back i did not want to upset her . and i am not mess up i just had a problem i need some advice on
and most of the people in here help and the only rat i see is you
this is a Family Support Forum and my husband is a truckdriver
and i came in here for support i did what i had to i did call the
cops but i have made my fatherlaws life a living hell
so as for you i have one thing to say
if you don't like me on this page do dam bad take a WALK AND KEEP ON HICKING
EVERY ONE IN HERE HAS HELP ME WITH THE ADVICE THEY GAVE ME
FROM TRUCKERSWIFE26

[T * Storm]

yoopr it is true my husband is driving for tmc

as for what happen i turn to yall because i have no one else to turn to
my husband dose not belive me and his family don't belive me
and my family i relly don't get to see much because my husband dose not let me see them i relly need help and yall help me
thanks i will keep you update
from trucker wife

In CA if someone touches you in any way and you don't want to be touched, its called assault. I don't know where you are but there could be a women's abuse shelter near you and you should tell the jerk-in-law, not to come near the house again. If your husband don't like it, find a good divorce attorney and get a "stay away" (restraining) court order against both.

Call a women's abuse hot-line and call your local police.

[marcel27208]

You sound crazy, lady. And I think it would be wise to stay away from guys that don't respect other mens' wives.

Is a forum about trucking a place you really want to air your dirty laundry?

this is a FAMILY FORUM!!

[whorutommy]

Well if your out of the south, call jerry springer... Its going to be a great show!

[whorutommy]

This whole story i shouldnt dwell on, but its bogus or there is some serious issues, among this clan. She need not put her post her! Talks about lockin a guy up, lots of guys r in prison due 2 women with a hell bent mission. She lacks attention and brains, for example poisons 4 the last 30 yr.s they make u aware of poisons and to protect your children from them, she has the knowledge to get her but cant protect her kids from poison? Seems pertty dam stupid and shouldnt call the cops but cps. On her self!!! Her father inlaw is not the problem its her and i feel sorry 4 her husband having to support her... This is not meant to be hafeful, just meant to let her know what time it is!

[shaley06]

I'm sorry but this sounds really to be alady crying for help due to mental problem. I'm going on to drive so I guess I'd be considered a truck driver also I was born a lady and still am so I guess if it was me I'd put the bas--d behind bars grandpa or not. And he wouldn't be the first grandpa in jail. Second I woulda told my husband why would you keep that from your soal mate. So yea I'd say she needs help in more ways than one. But to post this kinda crap on here is just totally ignorant. And every time we reply it just gives her a high to go to next step. As in family help on here it's for people whom need it not thrive on there own bullsi-t lies. So good luck to this lady. Send her a quarter to call her HUSBAND OR CALL THE LAW. OR MENTAL HELP LINE. Owait there are free no quarter here lady WRITTEN BY A LADY.

[syl77dar]

goodluck

[Windwalker]

You sound crazy, lady. And I think it would be wise to stay away from guys that don't respect other mens' wives.

Is a forum about trucking a place you really want to air your dirty laundry?

You might keep in mind that one of the purposes of this forum, and others like it, is to "help" each other. Share information, answer questions, and " help" each other. In her case, just talking about it, and not holding it in, is a form of therapy. No, we are not the professionals that she needs, but by being able to talk to us, she may also get up the courage to seek the help she needs. Read what's been said TO her about her situation. She has not been given "bad" advice. It also sounds to me like she's "living in her husband's world". Like she has no friends of her own to talk to. Do you really want to turn your back on her? I say, let her say what ever makes her feel better.

[Angel]

Tell your husband and the mans wife thats just lowdown and perverted .

[stomper4x4]

I cannot believe all the .... that have replied to this topic. First of all, non of you have a clue what this lady might be going through. Second, to assume that she's full of it, or accuse her of lying, is ignorant.

How is it you can judge someone over the Internet? What if she is for real? What morons some of you are. A little kindness does a long way; if you don't believe it, or think shes a fraud then why bother replying, just move on to another topic. Save this topic for people who have compassion, and take your self centered grouchy asses somewhere else.

Leave it to the people who want to help to post here. If shes for real, perhaps she may get some good advice and follow it. If shes a fraud, then she'll move on if you don't fan the flames.

I had a good friend go through this. People in these situations often cannot see things very clearly, for whatever reason. Often what looks obvious to those on the outside, it's so obvious to the victims.
My friend couldn't see it, and it ended up costing her life.

All you negative punks, go back to the other forums where you can complain all day about how much your company, and your job sucks and stay away from the family forum.

Just insane, the way some people are. Just assume your way through life and keep talking out of your rear.

[Angel]

I didn't say anything negative to her so before you go calling people punks read each and every one of the post it's bad enough that the man did it to her and to have a fear her husband wouldn't believe her on top of that has to be a horrible feeling .
Some of us encourage her to tell her husband and get help any way she can .
If it was me I would have just broke his hands then for kix got even by dropping him off with out apparel at a local police station with pervert wrote on his head in permanent ink :twisted: but that's just me I don't take kindly to perves or jerks :twisted:

[TruckersBish]

Ok this may be a dumb question but why can't you do any of those things for yourself? Is it really that hard to take the trash out and mow the lawn? I do understand if you have some type if disability that prevents you from doing those things.

[feederfred]

I just wish you would all use Spell Check. It's quite easy. Most of the posts are illegible and completely un-intelligible.

[classicxl]

dont let that go unpunished tell your husband and his wife

[tippy]

Hi tuckerswife26,

I am also a new member of this forum, and I read your post...it sounds like not good for you.

I think after talking seriously with your husband about what happened with you while he was on the road, and he still does not realize the problem of your father-in-law brought to you... (and maybe your father-in-law will do the same for the next time when he comes). You should decide and tell your husband if he does not do anything with his dad or talk with him stop doing bad things to you, you will take your child and leave him......
You have to be confident and stronger to threaten your husband....with this way.. your husband will listen to you......and if your father-in-law still does the same things again... just call 911 to ask help from police. Because there is not any dad can treat like that with his daughter-in-law, except that dad is crazy and have mental problem.

I am sorry about your situation and I know you love your husband very much. I hope you can decide and find a best solution.

Merry Christmas to you and family

[lnichols]

I fell awful for the original poster, I sure hope things have worked out for you and you have distanced yourself and your children from your in-laws.

And for those of you who had problems with her spelling or grammar - shame on you, she came her looking for a shoulder to cry on and a little support and you acted so superior to her because you can spell with a spell checker - get some compassion!

Obviously she was in distress and didn't give a rats ass about her spelling!