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ronjon619
04-26-2009, 07:11 PM
Has anyone else noticed an increase in begging at the TS? I usually cut them off before they get into their story but I was hit up twice since I got to this TA in OKC.

Hard luck story #1- The usual I ran out of gas and can you spare any change.

Hard luck story #2- This was a new one. I'm sitting in the back row. This guy sees me on the computer and walks straight to me. He doesn't ask for money but asks if I had any spare food because he's broke and has not eaten for 2 days. I still told him to get lost but jeez.

Syncrosonix
04-26-2009, 10:24 PM
ron, if you wanna piss them off. before they ask you, ask them if they have change.

ronjon619
04-26-2009, 10:28 PM
ron, if you wanna piss them off. before they ask you, ask them if they have change.

When I used to go to TJ, the street vendors would hassle me to buy some fake gold watches or chains. I would ask the guy if they were real. He would always say Jes they are. I would tell him damn, I was looking for the fake stuff.

Jumbo
04-26-2009, 11:14 PM
I have learned one little trick. I usually buy soup and chef boyadee in the pop top cans. I always buy one can that needs a can opener though. Guess what I can I give away?

repete
04-27-2009, 04:23 AM
I have learned one little trick. I usually buy soup and chef boyadee in the pop top cans. I always buy one can that needs a can opener though. Guess what I can I give away?

LOL thats good

Fredog
04-27-2009, 02:18 PM
Has anyone else noticed an increase in begging at the TS? I usually cut them off before they get into their story but I was hit up twice since I got to this TA in OKC.

Hard luck story #1- The usual I ran out of gas and can you spare any change.

Hard luck story #2- This was a new one. I'm sitting in the back row. This guy sees me on the computer and walks straight to me. He doesn't ask for money but asks if I had any spare food because he's broke and has not eaten for 2 days. I still told him to get lost but jeez.


another new one, a guy walks up to me at a truckstop and says he has to fedex his paper work or he wont get paid, problem is he doesnt have the money to send it, can I spare a couple bucks? I said, give it to me and I will send it, no that's okay, thanks anyway

cdswans
04-27-2009, 09:00 PM
Has anyone else noticed an increase in begging at the TS? I usually cut them off before they get into their story but I was hit up twice since I got to this TA in OKC . .

I have never been bothered at the FJ or 2 TA's on the south side and used to always get pestered at the Pilot or north side TA. Are they too lazy to cross the bridge?

belpre122
04-28-2009, 11:43 AM
Has anyone else noticed an increase in begging at the TS?

Nah, sure haven't ron.

Just the usual big money types driving the red, blue/gold, white/yellow, gold or orange stripped down power units. Business as usual!:clap:

Uturn2001
04-28-2009, 05:39 PM
I refused to give out money, but if someone was looking for something to eat I would be happy to give them something if I had it, which when I was driving I usually did, even if it was just the making for a peanut butter sandwich.

I have only had one beggar though turn down after his story of having not eaten for three days. First I offered him a peanut butter sandwich....nope allergic to peanuts, then I offered him a bologna sandwich....nope can't stand bologna, finally offered him pack of cheese snack crackers....nope, nothing to drink to wash it down with. :roll:

Its been many years but I remember a time when I went without eating for 3 or 4 days and someone was good enough to offer me a tuna sandwich. Well I really can't stand tuna salad with egg and relish in it, but at the time that sandwich tasted great.

pigrider
04-29-2009, 03:08 AM
Now days you don't know who you are helping! There are a lot of blue collar and white collar people out of a job these days! I will give anybody food! You never know, you might be in that same situation the next time around! So I fail to see the HUMOR in all this!

ronjon619
04-29-2009, 04:17 AM
There are many other avenues to obtain food. Local, state and the federal government all have programs. As far as Billy Bob the unemployed computer tech. I'm almost positive it was not him trying to bum food off of me at the TA.

dobry4u
04-29-2009, 02:10 PM
I have a bad habit of telling them to try getting a job. That is what I tell my sons and it doesn't seem to work. :angryblue:

I use to see a lot more of them when I worked in the city. The street bums would be jonesing with some sad story. That is one sec of society I try not to enable. At least they aren't carrying guns or breaking into my house! :clap:

Jackrabbit379
04-29-2009, 06:07 PM
I had a visitor the other night at our yard.
Our yard is on the west side of town. About 5 miles, on highway 82. Our office is a double wide with a porch light on each end, by the doors. We park our trucks/trailers right in front of the office. Kinda picture a "used car lot". That's what it looks like, but a small one. There is a gas station across the highway, with a street light. You can imagine how much light we have at night.
Well, I get back to the yard. (It's around 12:45-1:00) I'm breaking down my set, droppin/hookin etc. I could smell cigarette smoke. I thought that was kinda strange. I got done, and I got my lunchbox, radio and stuff out of my truck. I put my stuff in the office, and when I came out, this dude was walking up to the yard. I was nervous, but I didn't want to show it. He never gave me his name or nothing. Just asked me if he could "get a ride" into town. I always like to be the "good Samaritan", but I wasn't sure about this one. He looked like he was 3 sheets to the wind. I said, "I got a phone inside, you can call someone." He said, "I can't do dat. I aint got no money for no cab." I said, "well, I can call the Sheriff's office. I'm sure they can give ya a ride into town." I wasn't trying to be funny or anything by saying that, but he took it offensive. He said, "Naw don't do dat. If you aint gonna help me, I'm just gonna go on. So you gonna give me a ride?" I said, "man, I'd like to, but if I ever got caught with anyone riding in our trucks, I'd get fired." (of course I was done for the night-i was about to get ready to go home, but he didn't know that) He just nodded his head, and started walking towards town. You talk about wiping the sweat off your brow. I didn't know what was gonna happen when he walked up. I finished up, and I clocked out. He was still walking along the highway, about a mile from the yard when I went home.

belpre122
04-29-2009, 07:19 PM
I had a visitor the other night at our yard.
Our yard is on the west side of town. About 5 miles, on highway 82. Our office is a double wide with a porch light on each end, by the doors. We park our trucks/trailers right in front of the office. Kinda picture a "used car lot". That's what it looks like, but a small one. There is a gas station across the highway, with a street light. You can imagine how much light we have at night.
Well, I get back to the yard. (It's around 12:45-1:00) I'm breaking down my set, droppin/hookin etc. I could smell cigarette smoke. I thought that was kinda strange. I got done, and I got my lunchbox, radio and stuff out of my truck. I put my stuff in the office, and when I came out, this dude was walking up to the yard. I was nervous, but I didn't want to show it. He never gave me his name or nothing. Just asked me if he could "get a ride" into town. I always like to be the "good Samaritan", but I wasn't sure about this one. He looked like he was 3 sheets to the wind. I said, "I got a phone inside, you can call someone." He said, "I can't do dat. I aint got no money for no cab." I said, "well, I can call the Sheriff's office. I'm sure they can give ya a ride into town." I wasn't trying to be funny or anything by saying that, but he took it offensive. He said, "Naw don't do dat. If you aint gonna help me, I'm just gonna go on. So you gonna give me a ride?" I said, "man, I'd like to, but if I ever got caught with anyone riding in our trucks, I'd get fired." (of course I was done for the night-i was about to get ready to go home, but he didn't know that) He just nodded his head, and started walking towards town. You talk about wiping the sweat off your brow. I didn't know what was gonna happen when he walked up. I finished up, and I clocked out. He was still walking along the highway, about a mile from the yard when I went home.

I've been wondering where golfhobo has been lately. Do ya think that he made it home OK JR?:bow::clap::lol2::thumbsup::smokin:

Syncrosonix
04-29-2009, 08:37 PM
some of those beggars may actually be cr england, prime, pride, and schneider l/o's. after the 100th paycheck for a whopping $0 to $50. they need a few bucks to buy themselves a meal and will use the change to use the payphone.

Jackrabbit379
04-30-2009, 06:05 AM
I've been wondering where golfhobo has been lately. Do ya think that he made it home OK JR?:bow::clap::lol2::thumbsup::smokin:

Just wrong, belpre. :lol:

bluebikerboy1
04-30-2009, 07:23 PM
i know im not a trucker yet but i get them all the time here in stockton. Personaly i grew up military. if you can walk you can work. so i cant feel much empathy for the mid 20-30's guys who could lift a shovel/broom whatever but choose to beg for tax free income. I read a story once of a couple in Yuba city who begged for a living. they owned ther eown house, drove nice cars, ect. they had a beater car they drove to there beg site, wore a change of old tattered clothes and proceded to beg all day. i think i read they made 3k or so a month and it was tax free.
i have a local homeless guy that lives out of his truck. he earns a living doing yard work in the neighborhood for cheap. ive had him do my lawns and he does good work. if he can find a way to push a mower then so can these other guys.
now i have felt charitable once or twice and gave some food or change but its rare. i guess im just evil
:(

Windwalker
05-04-2009, 03:05 PM
Unfortunately, in this economy, there are several people that come to our door nearly every day. They're not asking for money, but they want to use the computer to check the sites that advertise jobs. And, if we look at the history when they are done, that's exactly what they have been doing. They'll check it in the morning, and they'll do it again in the evening. The time spent in between is at the offices for "day labor". They're finding almost nothing at all. And, yes, we'll also give them something to eat. These people, I don't mind. Wish I could do more for them.

But the ones that sneak into my shed and steal my tools and equipment to pawn... I've managed to set up a camcorder so that when they open the door, it gets a full view of who it is. They're finding out that my tools, etc, aren't kept in the shed anymore, but I've got pics of nearly a dozen faces that I have no idea who they are. I'm sure that if they knew there was one of those hidden in the pile of junk in the far corner, it would be gone too.

golfhobo
05-04-2009, 06:08 PM
I've been wondering where golfhobo has been lately. Do ya think that he made it home OK JR?:bow::clap::lol2::thumbsup::smokin:

Yeah, I made it Bel!! But MAN are my puppies tired! There wasn't a single trucker between Lubbock and NC that would give me a ride! And I don't understand it....cuz I offered every ONE of them a cold beer! :hellno:

Jumbo
05-04-2009, 10:55 PM
I had a visitor the other night at our yard.
Our yard is on the west side of town. About 5 miles, on highway 82. Our office is a double wide with a porch light on each end, by the doors. We park our trucks/trailers right in front of the office. Kinda picture a "used car lot". That's what it looks like, but a small one. There is a gas station across the highway, with a street light. You can imagine how much light we have at night.
Well, I get back to the yard. (It's around 12:45-1:00) I'm breaking down my set, droppin/hookin etc. I could smell cigarette smoke. I thought that was kinda strange. I got done, and I got my lunchbox, radio and stuff out of my truck. I put my stuff in the office, and when I came out, this dude was walking up to the yard. I was nervous, but I didn't want to show it. He never gave me his name or nothing. Just asked me if he could "get a ride" into town. I always like to be the "good Samaritan", but I wasn't sure about this one. He looked like he was 3 sheets to the wind. I said, "I got a phone inside, you can call someone." He said, "I can't do dat. I aint got no money for no cab." I said, "well, I can call the Sheriff's office. I'm sure they can give ya a ride into town." I wasn't trying to be funny or anything by saying that, but he took it offensive. He said, "Naw don't do dat. If you aint gonna help me, I'm just gonna go on. So you gonna give me a ride?" I said, "man, I'd like to, but if I ever got caught with anyone riding in our trucks, I'd get fired." (of course I was done for the night-i was about to get ready to go home, but he didn't know that) He just nodded his head, and started walking towards town. You talk about wiping the sweat off your brow. I didn't know what was gonna happen when he walked up. I finished up, and I clocked out. He was still walking along the highway, about a mile from the yard when I went home.

Your office is a double wide? Were all the buildings in Texas driven or pulled to their address?

golfhobo
05-05-2009, 03:23 AM
Your office is a double wide? Were all the buildings in Texas driven or pulled to their address?

All but the Alamo...and they trashed IT, too! :thumbsup:

HaHa.... and they thought "Earthgirls were easy!" :clap:

I don't even want to SUGGEST that the only "foundations" in Texas are RELIGIOUS ones! ;)

Or that the only WOOD in Texas is.... "where WOOD that be?" :lol2:

HaHa.... I KID Texans.....cuz it's so easy! But, I love 'em!

I have a niece who was born there. She lives there now, again. She just recently had a baby...whom she named HARPER for some reason... and I love them both.

I spent 4 or 5 of my most "formative" years there.... near the Red River. I discovered "wimmin" there! :confused::smokin::lol2:

Texans are ALL RIGHT by me! (Heck, they're ALL "right" anyways!) :rofl:

Hell, if it weren't for Texans, we'd have to make fun of.... um.... ALASKANS! :moon:

Sarah Palin said: "I can see Russia from my HOUSE!" :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

Heck, MOST Texans can see MEXICO from their house! :hellno:

Does anybody know why Texas IS the "Lone Star State?"

I bet GMAN does!

Make no mistake, folks. I KID Texans cuz I CAN! But, there is NO OTHER American that I would want to "have my back" than a TEXAN! It IS a special state. They ARE special people. PATRIOTS.... every ONE of them!

Hobo :smokin:

BlooMoose
05-05-2009, 02:31 PM
Yeah, I made it Bel!! But MAN are my puppies tired! There wasn't a single trucker between Lubbock and NC that would give me a ride! And I don't understand it....cuz I offered every ONE of them a cold beer! :hellno:

Dang, Hobo...I was going to say..."You know I would have given you a ride" but I figured I'd get all kinds of obscene comments. I was at the Flying J at Lubbock a bunch of times over the last few weeks.

I saw the same dude on the same corner panhandling everyday. I was drilling out by the Police Impound yard and there are some abandoned building where homeless people crash. I would see him every morning as I was driving up...I'm sure the drillers woke him up. I saw someone give him some money one day when they were stopped at the light, then I saw him again as I was getting field supplies...he was walking to the flashy new Overton Wal-Mart. Maybe they just want to eat what they like. He wasn't buying a brush/comb or clothes. At least he was buying food at Wal-Mart and not at the Flying J.

Jackrabbit379
05-05-2009, 05:08 PM
Your office is a double wide? Were all the buildings in Texas driven or pulled to their address?

I dunno. :lol:
Yes. Our office is a double wide. It's not what you think though. It's just open inside. No walls, except for the restroom. On one end, is where the drivers have their desks, etc, and the other end is where the sales people are.

Jackrabbit379
05-05-2009, 05:22 PM
I was at the Flying J at Lubbock a bunch of times over the last few weeks. I saw the same dude on the same corner panhandling everyday.

Our warehouse is right behing the flyin hook. Are you talking about that guy that always wears a pair of coveralls? No matter what the weather is, he's wearing his coveralls. He stands at the intersection of I-27/HWY 82. He's usually somewhere under the overpass right there.

BlooMoose
05-05-2009, 08:09 PM
Our warehouse is right behing the flyin hook. Are you talking about that guy that always wears a pair of coveralls? No matter what the weather is, he's wearing his coveralls. He stands at the intersection of I-27/HWY 82. He's usually somewhere under the overpass right there.

Is his hair is crazy and gray?

Jackrabbit379
05-05-2009, 08:52 PM
It kinda looks like Willie Nelson's hair, except it looks like it's been a while since he's washed it. :lol:

BlooMoose
05-06-2009, 07:31 PM
That's him. Poor guy. But he's scary looking! I hate to drive by and do nothing but I figured he wouldn't want my Weight Watchers lunch or Powerade Zero...and I never carry cash.

Jackrabbit379
05-07-2009, 05:35 PM
:lol:

Yeah, it's weird how he just hangs out right there. I don't think I've seen him at the truck stop.

matcat
05-07-2009, 06:06 PM
Hey listen man, I got my family on the car, I just ran out of fuel and I am just trying to get home a few hours away, I lost my job and I am just trying to get to my new house so I can start working at this new job I just landed! Plus my kids haven't eaten all day, they are starving, I don't know what to do, think you could spare a few bucks?

:jump::jump::jump::jump:

Freebird135
05-24-2009, 03:05 AM
i give every once in a while, if i really believe the person, but most of the time i dont

if they say they need money for gas i will say yea ill fill up my jug and take you to your car...most of the time they say oh you cant do that....they probably just want liquor

i grew up and live in the inner city ive dealt with beggers all my life

we get the people who give u the card that says they are deaf.....theres a good way to test if they are really deaf but i wont say it, cuz i dont want to get banned on my first post;)

Windwalker
05-29-2009, 12:03 AM
Just gave a guy 2 bags of corn flakes. Of course, I found them behind my trailer when I parked here. The cardboard boxes got rained on, but the plastic bags inside were still in one piece with no holes. (Neighbor's dog goes nuts over corn flakes, so I thought it might enjoy these too.) There were 6 of them, and a couple of "Honey Bunches of Oats".

"What am I going to do with these?"

I put salt on them and use them for Doritos Chips with beer.

He handed them back and shook his head.:rofl:

BIG JEEP on 44's
05-31-2009, 05:23 PM
If there is only one begger I just tell them I did not vote for Obama ,and please go away b4 I call the police ...However If there are 2 or more beggers I proposition that they fight each other for a caqsh purse of $20.00 pluse a bottle of thunderbird. Atleast rim polishers offer a service for the money they are attempting to obtain from me .

zipy46
06-21-2009, 03:52 AM
It dawned on me one day that...these are the same people that pound on your truck

at 3:00 am and wake you up begging or telling a sad story.

Giving them money or goods only encourages them to wake you up in the middle of the night.

scrapmetal
07-25-2009, 04:43 AM
I tell them "I didn't have fun makin then so I aint takin care of them"'Had a guy who told me you don't understand i gonna get a dollar or something and I took my pilot pen and stabbed him.This was t the Petro in Alanta 2004.I've been known to beat some ass for gettin woke up by beggars and diesel pukes honking their horn for no good reason!I don't threaten no one and am a respectful person and will help out a ligit fellow driver or help change a tire on a 4 wheeler.