I think you have done the right thing setting the date far enough ahead. You REALLY need to KNOW someone well (trust me on this one)...see them go through things and note how they handle life...the day to day. How they handle their bad moods...and your bad moods...and, as previous posters have said...after you have done everything else and there is nothing else left to do...that's when you should have kids. Because they DO put a damper on a lot of things!




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