OHHH, I know...tell him to move to Alaska and be one of those Crab fishermen. That pays really well.
Here is what I would do.....He has to buy his own video games, He has to pay for his own phone.....and if Im guessing right on the 3rd thing eventually he is going to realize that SUCCESS gets better women.Basically the boy is willing to work at least. Not the most stellar worker, but willing to work. And can hold a job for a reasonable amount of time. He basically cares about three things---video games, talking on the phone, and i'll let you guess what the 3rd thing is.
Really here is the absolute truth on what he needs to do. You said he was 18. He needs a dose of reality. Tell him if he gets a job, any job he can get. Get him some cheap scummy apartment. With a mattress on the floor, no TV, maybe one lamp. Pay the first months rent for him and then say "OK you are on your own, dont ask us for help" He will suffer quite a bit. But eventaully he will realize a few truths. With a low paying job, if he buys video games, he cant pay rent. If he pays for a phone, he might not be able to eat. And for the 3rd thing....Reality, no quality woman is going to want to date a guy with no money, a crappy apt, no TV and a old mattress on the floor. Reality will set in and he will want to EARN and do what it takes to EARN




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