Wow, so much fun stuff here from jmilici....where do I start.
Personally, I think sheep boy is full of $h!t. It seems like he was born with a silver spoon in his mouth.
Well, I was raised in a very successful family, but I wouldnt call that being born with a silver spoon. What my parents gave me growing up was not money. They gave me the knowlege on how to be self supporting. They drilled into me that I am responsible for my successes and failures. They taught me how to work hard, and with hard work I would be rewarded.
I was tought the same, but in my experiences that has not been true. When working in the engineering field I was told by 3 different lead engineers from 3 different companies when I asked for promotions that I am to good at what I do and they didn't want to loose me. One even brought in an old fling of his and gave her the job. And she spent about half her day talking on the phone another 40% of the day playing on the internet and she took 2 hour lunches. The remainder of her time she did actual work that was crappy to say the least. I still think you were born with a silver spoon, you parents didn't have to give you money for that.
In my experience it has always been that working hard keeps you from getting promotions. Almost every place I have worked, from Mcd's to krogers to the engineering firms that all the lazy people got the promotions
That has to be the dumbest statement ever made on this board. Let me read it again to make sure I read it right......lazy people get promoted.....BWahahahahaha. Do you know what is really funny? You actually believe that.
After reading some of your other post I will not comment on being the dumbest statement but for the last part see above remark.
Maybe it's personel pride but sheep boy sounds like he's nothing more than a yes man. Personally I wouldn't clean $&!+ off the bathroom walls if I worked at wally world. NOw if I needed a job and the only job was cleaning $&!+ off walls then you bet your ass I would take it but I otherwise no, I don't think so. And personelly, if I owned my own comapany and I was looking for a new manager the last person I would promote would be a yes man. I want people who can think for themselves, not a kiss ass. Oh yeah, sheep boy since you are willing to clean $&!+ off walls, I know of a few truck stops that could use your help.
Perhaps this is one of the many reasons you DONT own a company.
If you want to call doing what it takes to succeed being a "yes man", oh well. I have no problem doing anything my employers ask me to do. If today in the office my VP made an announcement saying that we have important customers coming in, the bathrooms are a mess and we cant find the cleaning girl. I would be the first to volenteer. Doing things like this is why i stand out in a company of 30,000. Doing things like this is why In a big company im not a number and even all the way up to the top of the corporation, they know who I am. And this is the reason if I ever get tired of recruiting, I can transfer to just about any position I want in corporate.
Actually I have owned a very small yet rather successfull CAD(computer aided drafting) buisness for about 3 years. I also spec'd, built and installed computers for engineering firms. I just could care less for that industry and decided to follow a different course in life. Oh, and like I said, I know of a few truck stops that could use your help.
Now in some respects I do not blame anyone for my hardships, but in other respects I do. Remember the saying the "rich get richer and the poor get poorer"? Well that is as true today as it was yesterday. I have worked hard all my life and it has gotten me know where. I have come to relise that this is where I am supposed to be. It sucks but oh well.
You say you dont blame anyone but then you go ahead and start blaming. Funny!
I actually said "in some respects. But before you make a statement like that you should know what I blame on others and what I don't.
Do you know why the stay rich and the poor stay poor? CHOICES. The rich get richer because they keep making the same great choices that made them rich. The poor stay poor because they keep making the same stupid choices that made them poor. A good definition of insanity should be "Doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result"
Now to the fuel prices. I think they are outragous. All's it's doing is making big oil richer and your average joe poorer. Like sheep boy said buy stock in big oil and you won't care either. It's that exact mentality that has ruined this country. I refuse to buy stock in an industry that I morally cannot support. I stand by my morals and ethics and would rather eat out of garbage cans than be like J.B. sheep boy.
Actually the rich stay richer for greed and class seperation. They think themselves better than everyone because they have loads of money. I can see it in your attitude. And yes in some instances choice does have something to do with why a person is poor. Take a lot lizzard for example. Some do the work to survive, yet they can go to a cdl mill and become a truck driver. Some however(poor people, not lot lizzards) are not by choice, regardless of what you think. You probably have never seen what true reality really is. You probably have had everything handed to you and that is your reality. But go right ahead and keep believing what you want.
As long as your OK eating out of garbage cans, THAT IS YOUR CHOICE. Personally, I choose to live differently.
I never said I eat or have ever eaten out of garbage cans, I would just rather do that than be like you.
He seems like nothing more than a yuppy, spoiled little give me, give me, I want, I want little child. Has to have all the latest toys and gadjets to fill some missing void in his life. I again will say it is people like him that has destroyed this once great country and made it nothing more than one big giant wally world.
My life has nothing to do with "GIVE ME" it has to do with "I EARN". I dont expect anything given to me. Yes, i love my toys and gadgets.
Do you know what the greatest right is in this country that our forefathers gave us? THE RIGHT TO PERSUE HAPPINESS. It doesnt say the right to be GIVEN happiness. You are OWED NOTHING in this country except your freedom to make choices. You are NOT owed a job, you EARN a job. You are not owed more pay...if you want more pay, you can EARN IT.
Well I don't expect anything from anyone except a fair chance that's it. The rest I will take care of myself.
Thank you sheep boy for your suggestions on how to be like you
I dont want you to be like me, I want you to keep being you.
but I would rather be poor
At least you admit that its a choice.
Not making a choice, as stated above for some it is, for some it isn't. I can tell the difference when a person has chosen to be poor and when they haven't. And when they haven't, I am able do have a little empathy for them. Can you say the same?
You keep working for one of the trucking industries biggest contributers to it's downfall and I will keep working on helping the littleman succeed.
What downfall is that again? I see more trucks on the road than ever. Many trucking companies are turning a great profit. My JB hunt stock has been doing great. What downfall? You said you are a truck driver but cant afford anything. I know and talk to 1000s of drivers who are doing well in this industry, why arent you? Are they just better workers than you? Oh wait, I forgot about your theory.....those must be the LAZY drivers who are making all the money.
The downfall is this. Comapnies like yours and a few others have brought down the price of freight putting a lot of good o/o's out of business. Cheap freight, that is what you guys have given this industry. Another thing companies like your's and a few others have flooded our roads with are unsafe & dis-courtous drivers driving these 65 mph trucks hauling 45,000 lbs of whatever and letting that weight push them down a mountain at 80mph. Or speeding through a 55 mph construction zone at 65 mph to make up time for not being able to do the speed limit. My company, a small 35 truck company recently lost 20% of it's freight to a company with a yellow logo becouse they can haul that freight cheaper. Now some good drivers in my company have to worry that if they cannot find more freight if they will loose there job. I am very happy for you that you are sitting all high and mighty with your holier than thou attitude and your jb stock and all your toys and gadgets, just know that it came at a very expensive price to others. Companies like yours and wally world and others are helping to destroy the american dream of entrepeneurialship. On behalf of the 7 o/o's family friends that I know and the countless others that have been put out of business becouse they cannot compete with your cheap freight mentality, I would like to say thanks.
I will keep working on helping the littleman succeed. It's a tough and dirty war but in the end the little man will prevail.
This is just WAY too good to pass up. How exactly are you helping the little man succeed. You dont have cable, how are you helping the little guy who instals cable.
Cable is already installed in my house, I just need to call the cable company, they flip a switch and poof, I have cable. And plus, I would rather play my guitar or read a book than watch tv(most of the time). You dont go out to eat, how are you helping the little guy who waits tables?
Besides the fact that most of the restaurants are large corporations with crappy food, they usually split the tips eavenly among the entire wait staff and bus persons. So the lazy, crappy servers get the same amount of tips as the good servers. You dont buy toys and gadgets. How are you helping the truck driver who delievers those toys and gadgets.
Don't worry, thier are plenty of people like you to fill the void I leave.
I'm still trying to figure out why it was "just WAY too good to pass up"
Better yet, What advice would you give a little guy asking for financial advice? Because from what I get from your post it would be:
jmilici's plan for financial success.
The advice I would give will be in bold after your words:
1. Dont work hard, the lazy are the ones who get promoted and get raises.
1. Do the best possible job you can do.
2. Dont do anything your boss asks you to do, no one likes a "yes man"
2. I actually agree with the second part of this statement, as far as the first well if your a jb recruiter I guess you would be willing to do it since there is not much difference in job descriptions.
3. Dont invest in successful companies, Investing is for morons.
3. Invest in what you believe in, don't invest in what you don't(no matter how successful it is)
4. You can live on two sandwhiches a day, dont set goals for something nice you might want to buy in the future.
4. Now this is just plain ignorant. This is what I can afford so I can keep my bills paid. Believe it or not, I don't mind doing it. What the hell do goals have to do with anything, I have them and shoot for them but reality takes precedance. My advice would be to do what is necessary to keep food on the table even if it is just a sandwhich. Oh yeah, you really should not ridicule a person on what they have to do to survive. Atleast I don't sit on my ass and collect free money from the government and complain that I can't be rich. Or sit on my rich ass and put all the poor people down and complain that there are too many.
Man, I tell you, that is some great advice for the "little guy". You should write a book. Let me ask you.....How is that working in your own life?
I am more down to earth and intune with real life than you are. Atleast I know what the word hardship really means and will never get down on someone for a string of bad fortune. Believe it or not that does happen, whether by choice or not.