Ok Slimland, I am present and accounted for......
I have been trying to read through the thread and pick up on some subject matter but it seems like it has been somewhat of a hodge-podge of discussion. So I am going to try and hit on one of the last post.
I look at the state of church's in two ways. First, there are clear examples of church's, or maybe better said as denominations (but both words will work), that are falling away from Biblical authority. There is no doubt that church's today are twisting themselves in all kinds of contortions to be what they want to be and not what is instructed in the Bible & by God.
But on the other side I see some folks who are quick to say that a particular church or denomination has "fallen away" because they don't quite see eye to eye on some issue. I think this is an area we must be very careful of and is addressed in scripture in Mark 9:38-41
38"Teacher," said John, "we saw a man driving out demons in your name and we told him to stop, because he was not one of us."
39"Do not stop him," Jesus said. "No one who does a miracle in my name can in the next moment say anything bad about me, 40for whoever is not against us is for us. 41I tell you the truth, anyone who gives you a cup of water in my name because you belong to Christ will certainly not lose his reward.
I was listening to Pastor Tony Evans on the radio while working the other night and he had a good term for what we should do as Chrisitans working together. "Do not confuse membership with fellowship." Just because we belong to different denominations we still are part of Christ's church.
The answer was already hit on in the thread and in short it is......do not take anything said by a so called leader, no matter who they are, blindly without searching it out yourself in The Bible with the help of the Holy Spirit. 1 Thess 5:21 & 1 John 4:1-3
21Test everything. Hold on to the good.
1Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. 2This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, 3but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard is coming and even now is already in the world.
The thought of testing really hits on the quote in your post about what do the churches really want. Clearly there are those who use the name of God to further their own interest. It has been that way since the beginning and is just another example of how far in sin mankind is sunk.
Individuals must take the time to read The Bible, pray, and test what is said. Just because the Pastor has a alphabet of letters behind his name listing all the degrees he has it does not matter. Give me the Holy Spirit helping a man with a limited education anyday.
Should following Christ make someone's head spin. No, not at all. In fact, part of the reason Christ was here the first time was to help show us that you do not need a man centered religious hierarchy to comune with God. Christ made the task of following Him just so plain simple it's silly.
First, what's our problem? We sin....Romans 3:23
Second, what's the result of sin? Death & then Judgement.....Romans 6:23 & Hebrews 9:27
Third, do we have any hope? Yes, in Christ John 3:16, 2 Corinthians 5:21, Hebrews 9:22, & Romans 5:8
Fourth, so what do we do? Believe & Repent...Acts 17:30, Acts 16:30-31, John 1:12, & Romans 10:13
Finally, ok I do so how should live going forward? In short, as it is said in Matthew 22:37-40 (paraphrased)...
Love God with everything you got! Your heart, mind, soul, & body. And just as important, love your neighbor as yourself. These are the two most important commandments from God.
Finally, the quote in your post being rich and following God is short so it's hard to understand the full context. Can you have riches and still follow God? Yes, as long as your riches do not define you or cause you to follow wealth instead of God. Remember, man can not have two masters. When Christ told the rich man to sell all he had and follow him the rich man was discouraged because he did not want to give up his wealth. Wealth was his master and Christ knew it. God can provide talents to us as he sees fit and as we are worthy. That includes wealth. Joseph of Aramathea was a wealthy man who followed Christ.
Ok, so this is the last finally...really...
Should you become part of a church? Yes, no man is an island. Living the Christian life is no picnic! It is necessary not to foresake meeting together so that we can get encouragement and support from fellow believers. Should someone be made to believe that they are lost from God for not officially joining a formal big building church? No. There are many home based churchs, study groups, and Bible meetings that can offer the Christian support and chance for fellowship. So how should someone decide where to go. Simple, seek out God's help through prayer study of the Bible to find a suitable place for you to fellowship.
Man this post is disjointed! I may come back and edit it for clarity. But those are some initial thoughts.